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BrittanyDreamBby
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Godmorng
Jan 15 2023 02:11PM more by BrittanyDreamBby
Tags: Central Coast, Townhall (All tags)

I haven’t seen him in a long time and he’s red now and he rated me now I don’t know what to do?
      
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SeymourButz
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Jan 15 2023 02:49PM     link to this

Thought this was a joke.
SeymourButz
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Jan 15 2023 02:51PM     link to this

Don't trip she is a level 0
mark1224
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Jan 15 2023 05:28PM     link to this

BrittanyDreamBby

Godmorng did not rate yo9u Red, he rated you Green. What are you talking about?
LeftAndRight
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Jan 15 2023 07:02PM     link to this

From my comprehension she said he rated her i dont think she said he rated her red, green, negative or positive. Just saying
SurfMonger
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Jan 16 2023 07:50AM     link to this

Brittany (I have a) Dream Bby -

It is that you take another look and apply some critical thinking. He has a single red from September 2015, which is more than seven years prior to you creating a profile.

So what do you do... rate him back based on your experience with him a few days ago.

(I am really hoping OP started this blog for attention and not because she was shocked and confused... SMH)
SurfMonger
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Jan 16 2023 07:51AM     link to this

^^^^ Even if experience wasn't a few days ago as indicated by his rating, rate him back if you recall the interaction. This really is not difficult
BrittanyDreamBby
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Jan 16 2023 08:22AM     link to this

I sure didn’t do this for attention and how do I know if he’s safe then?
EdmondDantes
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Jan 16 2023 08:23AM     link to this

Brittany, Not a good look here. Other men will look at this blog and possibly pump the brakes on pursuing a meet up with you.
SurfMonger
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Jan 16 2023 10:54AM     link to this

OP: "I sure didn’t do this for attention and how do I know if he’s safe then?"

I was going to be a smart ass again but I think you are sincerely asking.

He has over 100 safe ratings from ladies. He has a single unsafe rating.

The unsafe rating came from a girl with 9 ratings other than his. He also rated her unsafe. Her last rating was 06/13/21 and she hasn't updated her profile since 07/14/21.

So what do you think is more likely - she did something unsafe and he rated her accordingly and then she retaliated with a neg rating? Or vice versa?

Did you ask him why he got the red rating? Did you ask her why she rated him red (Bet she doesn't even answer and is gone from the site)?

And back to your original post - you said you saw him before - was he safe then? If so, why would you think he is not safe now when over 100 other women say he is?


Am I failing to comprehend something here?
RandyMantooth
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Jan 16 2023 01:47PM     link to this

It took some time, but I think I finally figured out what OP is talking about.

BrittanyDreamBby's account went active a few weeks ago. She was previously on HX as BellaBangzXx and Bellabangzelite. She has made an effort to reconnect with old friends to re-rate each other. From her network, it looks like she already did this with several people, including three of the highest ranked male profiles on the site.

I think maybe she is concerned about not leveling up due to also exchanging ratings with people who have a negative compliance score, like godmorng (who she first met in 2017 and then rated her other profile in 2020). She did manage to get another guy with negative compliance to remove his rating, resulting in her being able to achieve level one status with only 5 people in her network.

So her question is really "I want to level up by only exchanging ratings again with people who's networks can help me, without having to take on the baggage of people who can't."

The answer is, you can't really do anything about who rates you. You can let people know you won't rate them back until you meet again in person. If you get ratings from people you for sure never met, it is a good idea to put something in your profile saying so and then rate them back by answering the questions honestly.
SurfMonger
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Jan 16 2023 02:23PM     link to this

^^^^ One thing for sure. RM you and I spent way more time on this than we should have...
JR718
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Jan 16 2023 02:59PM     link to this

What you can do is delete the blog
BrittanyDreamBby
OC, CA
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Jan 16 2023 03:34PM     link to this

No thank you
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