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Petite14u2use
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Morning get togethers..
Jan 23 2023 08:20PM more by Petite14u2use
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I find that when someone schedules a morning get together the night before they rarely show. Why is that? And is it just me or is this a common thing?
      
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Laguna88
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Jan 23 2023 08:52PM     link to this

Not sure if that’s a thing, but I’m a morning guy pretty much every time. Yet it’s tough to commit the night before. A lot can change over night (especially if you’re not sleeping alone🙄or things can look different in the morning.

As I remember, you’re a morning girl….
mark1224
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Jan 23 2023 10:27PM     link to this

Since I am always traveling to get together and it is usually an hour away or 2, if I am going to meet in the morning I have to schedule the day before. I combine my trips south for business with pleasure. Depending on timing, I might get together before the meeting (since I know how long I am playing and how long it will take to get to the business meeting) of after. The only problem with after is that I have no idea how long the meeting will take.
I do not cancel.
Pjforfun
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Jan 24 2023 08:18AM     link to this

Pre booking the day before would probably help making

Sure it happens. There is nothing like morning sex to make

Your whole day !
jimmmyz
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Jan 24 2023 08:53AM     link to this

My experience with mornings is that over 90% of visits confirmed the night before do not occur. Usually someone (not me) sleeps in or forgets or double books. What works for mornings is multiple communication in the morning. Then the meeting has a better chance of occurring.
AFMadness
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Jan 24 2023 09:38AM     link to this

When scheduling the night b4, I always check in an hr b4 the time.
SeymourButz
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Jan 24 2023 11:37AM     link to this

Nah!
Scheduling the day before just gives them too much time to dig up all the bad shit you done to all the other broads.
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Jan 24 2023 03:34PM     link to this

My experience with early morning sessions (before 10a) has been pretty good, These are usually the guys on their way to work. Nooners are usually pretty consistently good as well. It is the late afternoon and evening appointments that are booked more than 24 hrs in advance that seem to have an unusual cancellation rate. And it seems that the further out in advance the appointment is made the more likely it is to be cancelled. If they cancel more than 4 hours ahead of the scheduled time then I don't trip on it. If they wait until the last minute to cancel then I put a note on them "deposit required."

I think that some guys have been out drinking and let their eyes overreach their wallet. What seems like a good idea when you are a little tipsy doesn't seem like such a good idea when you are sober. But that is a normal part of the business. I don't get all weird when it happens the first time with a guy, but I sure as hell will take measures (deposit) to make sure it doesn't happen again with him.
RickyRed
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Jan 24 2023 04:40PM     link to this

I can’t tell you how many times that the girl is a no-show if I schedule a morning session. Nothing worse than a hard on sitting in a hotel parking lot and no answer. I havent scheduled a morning session in several years but if I do, I wil just tell them that we will communicate in the morning. If I don’t hear back, I’m not coming.
Justify
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Jan 25 2023 08:00AM     link to this

guys that book at night probably take matters in their own hands...thats why rebooking doesnt work...when im in the mood to play I want to play ASAP, not two days from now....Its not like making an appointment to get your hair cut or get your oil changed
ocavguy
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Jan 25 2023 09:30AM     link to this

If I make an appointment, I show up early just in case of any traffic issues. It’s called being an adult and respecting other people’s time and money the way you would want yours respected.
tommy1nut
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Jan 25 2023 09:33AM     link to this

Wow I can remember spending many mornings with petite14u. ATF. 🫶🏽
Marrisa_G
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Jan 25 2023 10:31AM     link to this

@Justify

I wasn't going to go there but I'm glad you did. When guys reach out it is because they are "in the mood" right then. I figure that I have at most 10 minutes to engage them in conversation or I will lose them to another girl or to "self-gratification." Spur of the moment or last minute appointments rarely cancel.
athiker2001
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Jan 25 2023 10:41AM     link to this

I love mornings, and always schedule the day before. I offer to bring coffee/breakfast and have never had a cancellation or no-answer. Perhaps I'm lucky...
MrBurchum
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Jan 25 2023 11:22AM     link to this

Some of us old retired guys can only get out in the morning. I want to pre-book instead of last minute emergency shopping. I’ve been stood up more than once. I’ve had to cancel more than once. I’m scheduled for tomorrow morning. I’ll let you know how it goes.
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Jan 25 2023 11:35AM     link to this

You have to do your research and confirm the 'reliability' of your partner. I have done sessions as early as 6:00 AM, but it was a lady I absolutely knew would be up and ready.

However, I find a noon session is often good, since most people are 'up' by then. However, it only works if the lady is staying over another night or more, since nooners conflict with checkout times.
almaplacida1
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Jan 25 2023 02:19PM     link to this

I too am a morning person and usually schedule the day before a meet up.
My last message before retiring in the evening is that I will message to confirm in the AM.
In the AM, my message sets a deadline to reply or the deal is dead.
3 of 4 times the deal dies.
Ah, but the 4th can be fabulous.
Thank you lovely ladies.
Pretty_Kittty
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Jan 25 2023 03:06PM     link to this

Its common when its scheduled friday night for a saturday morning...... usually cause they are still recovering from the night before and slept in (or got lucky the night before). Ive stopped taking early Saturday am appointments unless I reallyyyyyy know the person <3
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jan 25 2023 05:40PM     link to this

Damn I was shooting for a morner, but I guess now a nooner.
Pretty_Kittty
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Jan 25 2023 05:59PM     link to this

Grump, I know you're an early bird like me so you get a forever pass ❤️ shall we say grandfathered in 😂😋 now come here so I can spank you and call you pappy 😈😍
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Jan 25 2023 06:15PM     link to this

@Jazz51

I am not one those very late night into the morning hours kind of gal, so early mornings are no stretch for me. If I don't have something already scheduled beyond 9p at night then I shut the phones and laptop off and hit the sack my 10p.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jan 25 2023 06:58PM     link to this

On my way youngin.
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Jan 25 2023 10:08PM     link to this

Loved my two early am meetings this week -
TaylorSoSpunky
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Jan 26 2023 07:55AM     link to this

I enjoy early morning appointments, that's if someone wants me to come jump in bed with them.
starrider43
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Jan 26 2023 08:48AM     link to this

You are just booking mornings with the wrong guys. I love morning meets, and have never flaked once in over 10 years. With work and civi life, mornings are the best (and sometimes the only) time I can get away, and I always plan/book in advance.

I have been flaked on and stood up many times for morning meets by providers who thought it was a great idea the day before they stayed up all night drinking tequila and/or smoking whatever. A couple are even in the "Morning Meetings Club", but I know morning meets are a risk as many providers are just not early risers. If they can't pull it off, I just wish they wouldn't commit to morning meets.

When morning meets do work, they are often the best. What a great way to start the day! And guaranteed spring in your step and smile on your face all day till lights out.

Early bird, gets the worm....
islandtalent
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Jan 26 2023 10:48AM     link to this

I love mornings too like starrider43. I'm at my sexual peak (pun intended) and It's a great way to start the day. Those that have been able to see me in the mornings have become my repeat ATF.
MrBurchum
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Jan 26 2023 11:31AM     link to this

My appointment went GREAT! Everyone concerned was on time, as advertised, and I’ll be whistling the rest of the day.
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Jan 26 2023 12:40PM     link to this

I, too, am a morning meet kinda guy and my only negative rating was a result of the young lady ghosting me for a morning meet. Rated her negative in karma and she retaliated with a negative rating in safety. Just passed it off as her not understanding how ratings worked on HX.
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Jan 26 2023 01:11PM     link to this

They've sobered up.
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Jan 26 2023 04:46PM     link to this

I wanna have a "morning get together"
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Jan 26 2023 05:30PM     link to this

Wish I could have a really early morning appointment so that the lady could take full advantage of my 'morning wood'. But that would require an overnight.
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Jan 26 2023 05:54PM     link to this

crash at 11 ish and always up around 2:30 am and ready to rock

SkurferGurl
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Jan 26 2023 05:59PM     link to this

^^^^^How does that work out for ya ???

Facephuckker
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Jan 26 2023 06:30PM     link to this

hard to tell, sometimes I feel I could use more sleep, but it never happens
I usually go to the gym around 1:30 if I'm up earlier. hard being a vampire these days
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Jan 26 2023 07:30PM     link to this

i work regular hours mon-fri so i usually don’t go on the prowl during the week. when i’m feeling froggy i’ll log on, typically later at night fri or sat and seek to set something up that night. miss the old days in the insomniacs club or mingle. lately it’s like a morgue when it’s 2 minutes to midnight. but i’m livin’ after midnight.
*see what i did there? 😛
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Jan 27 2023 09:47AM     link to this

I've never had a cancellation in all of these years for a morning romp!
I agree with starrider43 and islandtalent ...
It is the BEST way to start the day with that pep in my step as well as the wonderful smile on my face ALL. DAY. LONG.!!

@->--
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Jan 27 2023 11:02AM     link to this

Interesting! My mornings are usually confirmed and booked! Morning romps are like THE best!


But I operate under mainly pre-bookings from up to two weeks ahead, so maybe that’s why I don’t experience as many cancellations?
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Jan 27 2023 01:20PM     link to this

I love mornings!
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Jan 27 2023 01:32PM     link to this

I am a morning person and have found that I get a 60 40 split when I schedule morning visits. And for the 60% that go, I normally get I slept late or through my alarm, give me 15 - 20 minutes.

I will normally wait the time, however, there have been those times that I cannot say I'm sorry, but I have other obligations need to leave.

I try to plan for an extra 20 - 30 minutes based on past experiences.
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Jan 27 2023 03:29PM     link to this

I am almost exclusively a morning guy. Sometimes 8, sometimes 10:30 but virtually never later than that. I have never flaked in 15 years and cannot recall the last time I was flaked on. (I did have a 1pm a while back and she cancelled on my drive there...)

I set it up the day before and usually confirm the evening prior with pretty much no issues. Maybe I just schedule with the right ladies....

And I am definitely at my best first thing in the am... just saying...
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Jan 27 2023 09:48PM     link to this

The mornings are for Coffee ☕☕☕

Afternoon's are for the lovin' 💘💘💘
Petite14u2use
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Jan 27 2023 11:07PM     link to this

I love you guys!
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Jan 28 2023 08:12AM     link to this

Mornings are the best!!!! I wood love to have you over for morning fun!!!
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Feb 17 2023 09:59PM     link to this

I've booked a very early morning once and everything went well. I was on my way from oc to Ventura and booked a 6 am in Thousand Oaks. Cheers.
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Feb 18 2023 12:24PM     link to this

buyer remorse
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Feb 19 2023 11:03AM     link to this

Welp, I am definitely a morning guy. However, I have given up trying to schedule the night before for a morning hookup because I have had too many providers say YES and not to hear from them later when the time comes. I am a planner, and I suppose am am ALWAYS in the mood. LOL. Awesome to hear the perspective from the ladies perspective though. Thank you! Soooo if any of you morning gals are ever in San Diego... just sayin :-) Very insightful Marrisa_G. Can't wait to see you again. For the record, I personally have never been a no show. I know that must be frustrating for you ladies. Respecting people's time should be mutual.
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Feb 19 2023 11:25AM     link to this

I am also a big fan of mornings and nooners because those are usually the only times I have free. However, as was mentioned earlier, these all hinge on whether or not a lady is staying at a venue for more than one night, since mornings and nooners conflict with check-out times.
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Feb 19 2023 11:59PM     link to this

I enjoyed early morning romps until I changed to a semi graveyard shift. I will now settle for after 2am loving sessions
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Feb 20 2023 07:41AM     link to this

I would to have a morning get together with you❤️
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