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You and me tonight
Tomorrow the preacher
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I suspect this guy was pulling your leg.
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I believe she was pulling his leg
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It's not a leg. That's only a "figure of speech".
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But I do love you… and miss you a bunch. 🌹
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Well, you are very attractive and a whole lot of fun! That being said, I agree with you, an hour here and there. Maybe 2-3 and an occasional play and sleep over, but marriage? Why complicate the situation and ruin all the fun….
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I thought this place was all bout the 1 hour honeymoons
Maybe he wanted indefinite honeymoons
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Tabie,
We met a while ago and after many, many days of careful consideration I've decided that you really are the one for me.
Please accept this proposal to you via this very special Hx blog.
PS Yes, I am on my knees.
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Tabie -
I Lust You!!!
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Lol, some of us who've already been married will never make that mistake again, it would cheaper to just buy you a house. 🏘️
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^
Truth!
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lmfaoooooo
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If someone gets married on HX will we all be invited to the wedding?
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^Now that would be a wedding to remember, especially the reception after a few drinks!
Guys say bs to women all the time and vice versa in this game. The first time a working girl said she loved me, I got all scared, but then I realized it's all part of the game. I'm sure she said that to the next guy, too. I remember telling a girl that she should move in with me (joking, of course, since there's no room at the inn), but she had an excellent answer: "Thb, that sounds kinda creepy." I laughed because I wasn't serious anyway and we got along fine. (With an SO in the house, she couldn't even imagine how creepy it would be. )
Whether a girl snaps back like that or starts talking rings, it's all in fun. However, it is important to read each other and not make anyone uncomfortable or believe it's genuine (unless it is).
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*tbh
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Nacraman
Just a house?
Now that is a deal.
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I doubt he was serious about marriage. Did he really think you would walk away from all this?
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House +1 and we will have a better relationship!!!!
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Binged on "Marriage at First Sight"?
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"I will gladly marry you Thursday for a honeymoon today".
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Out this guy Tabs so we can all make fun of him
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isnt that the pretty woman story??
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He just wants to marry Pooter!
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I think PK has Tabs already on lock....pretty sure that "friendship" is very "tight"
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Probably more of a fantasy he's built up in his head. A part of that fantasy came true when got a taste.
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Short term relationships are fun with providers and/or strippers. So as ling you’re both not falling in live, just respect and enjoying each others boundaries and time.
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"I want to marry you!" can be said in either jest or seriously. But sometimes it is the first indication that you may be dealing with a potential stalker. It seems I have to deal with these types of "overly smitten" men several times a year.
I have one now (non-HX) that INSISTS that I need to be "saved" or "rescued" and has trouble dealing with the word "NO." He drives all the way from SGV to San Diego to see me - 3 times now.
Flowers when he shows up, limo drive to an upscale restaurant for dinner, followed by a multi-hour session is fantastic and really makes a girl feel good (and the money isn't bad either). However, when he INSISTED that I should go with him to Montana to look at property to build "Our dream home" I knew it had gone too far. Time to hit him between the eyes with a 2 x 4 as a wakeup call.
I am naturally very nice to every client (maybe too nice) and don't ever want to be thought of as some "cold bitch" or even uncaring, but these "overly smitten" men can cause some serious problems. I was dreading the time when he would eventually show up at my incall uninvited and unannounced. Hence, the 2 x 4!
How would one ever screen for these types of people ahead of time and just avoid them? When is the best time to break out the 2 x 4? And what is the best way to remind them that the relationship is transactional and not based on "love" or even feelings? Unfortunately, indicating that I do not feel the same way about them that they obviously feel about me is hurtful to them, and that in turn makes me feel bad.
Maybe I should add a statement to my do's and don'ts that says:
WARNING - using the word "Love" may result in the immediate termination of the session. Just don't go there!
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But can you blame the guy....So overcome by whatever you did!! 
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sometimes in the aftermath of bliss, certain happy bubbles comes from deep within.
i guess its the effervescent of dopamine
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I already have two houses 
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I can use a 3rd tho it’s a great investment
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The location would matter because the business I run !
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"Time to hit him between the eyes with a 2 x 4 as a wakeup call." Wow, the little woman carries a big stick. Glad we never met; otherwise I might not be here.
I guess sweet nothings are not always nothing and I'll have to bite my tongue next time.
Lesson learned.
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My comment was meant for MG, btw.
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Okay, yeah but...and I have to admit that MG is worthy of gong a bit crazy over...and as a dude, one needs to always stay on your skis, not too far out in front, so I do get where this guy was probably going over the top a bit.
But I have dated two women here, one of which I pursued and we were a thing for a bit, but not really a match. And a second one that it was her idea to partner up, but for some reason I can't remember, despite her being very convincing, enjoyable, and a good person, I passed.
So, maybe not so crazy to be one of those guys looking for something longer term, given that some women here are maybe in the same game, or willing to do go there.
Actually, I now remember a third one who made a pretty serious comment.
I'm sure my story isn't the only one.
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My first and only regular were together for almost a year. I never saw anyone else the whole time. We texted each other almost every day and saw each other every 2 weeks or so. Eventually we had a fight about trivial nonsense and she told me she never wanted to see me again. Fair enough.
Three years later she texted me out of the blue and said she missed me and needed to see me again. We were together for almost a year. I never saw anyone else the whole time. We texted each other almost every day and saw each other every 2 weeks or so. Eventually we had a fight about trivial nonsense and she told me she never wanted to see me again. Fair enough.
Do we love each other? I am far too old to attempt an understanding of the vagaries of the human heart. If she asked me back again I would say yes. I do not pretend to be above the emotional entanglements which lay beneath the surface of sexual commerce. All relationships are commerce and all commerce is emotional.
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My favorite saying is
"Don't fall in love with me because I will not catch you" lol
I've had men tell me that they love me either accidentally or on purpose and I don't mind that . But I also had someone offer to divorce their wife for me and was dead serious ..... And .... Please.... Just .... Don't lol
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Well
I will still dump her like a hot rock when you change your mind
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@bird
I hope you realize that using a 2 x 4 was rhetorical. But after blocking this guy on 3 different numbers and 2 different emails I got a letter from him yesterday. Same BS of wanting to "save" me! Fuck that 2 x 4! It's time for a 4 x 4!
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I thought this was going to be a wrong hole story
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Me too you know what they say any port in a storm
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Here is a change in subject 🧌
I just really love this pic
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One day Tabie, one day! ( I hope to meet you and promise not to propose )
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@ Tabie
Amazing picture
💜💜
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Ya ir I want to propose ! I have a ring for each of your lovely Brest!!
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Tabie, I'm envious!
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As a follow-up to the house story, my biggest regret was not losing the in Santa Barbara house to my ex-wife (worth about $1.8 to $2 million) in the divorce, nor that an ex-friend was in my house sleeping with my ex-wife. No my biggest regret was 22 years ago I had a chance to buy a Grabber Blue 1973 DeTomaso Pantera L in great condition for $27,000 and instead I listen to my ex-wife and put double that amount into a new kitchen. I really wish I had bought the car instead.
(For those non-car people a Pantera is a mid-engine Italian car with a Ford V8)
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Come on you know those wops can't build motorcycles or cars
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♥️🇮🇹
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I swear I remember a couple who actually met through here and got married (when I was on here before), but that was obviously after a knowing each other for a loooong time. Obviously the OP's situation is an entirely different kinda thing and generally...bad lol
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