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I don't mind sharing, 9 inches and very thick.
The neighbors are a pair of crazy nuts.
Does that help?
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No^
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I think it's okay to ask
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It's ok to ask, for sure.
I mean, I think you should be asking all the questions beforehand.
I know I'm gonna ask you questions and your friends!
It's all in how you ask. Speaking to a person with kindness and respect is amazing!
It's hot to be nice.
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+1 ^
I like to know a Birth date.
The other half shall be kept a Mystery until then.
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I think it's okay to ask. I'd rather you decide I'm not right for you BEFORE you come see me rather than after ( hasn't happened yet but it's always been a fear )
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That's silly.
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It sounds like she did you a favor. If people are that difficult on a PM, just think how they would be in person.
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If you want to know height, weight, shoe size, pants size just buy them lunch and take them shopping.
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Probably more in how you ask, not the question I would think.
We see enough fake pics here, no one wants to meet and then be disappointed.
Not good for the guy, and for the girl, not so good either, some guys will walk, some will go through with the appointment, but not rate, or rate & when PM'd will give a heads up on the mismatch.
So, asking, "are you fat" vs. what's your measurements
Or if a guy prefers a particular ethnic group, asking, XXXX really turns me on, versus, I don't see XXX group.
Some guys have a kink for older women, some might find mature women a turn off, asking nicely will help everyone.
You get the idea.
But I'm not a gal, so I can't say, had some good responses from the gals so far.
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@jackrabbit33
ALAS! We agree on something! Very sound advice!
(looking for emoji of TiC - "Tongue in Cheek")
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Not a lot of people wanna give all their personal info like that
Having the questions listed back to back feels lil interrogative
Most of us girls while working are dealing with some sort of big anxiety or past traumas
Asking too many questions like that would throw me off
Just sayin
Not that it’s extremely offensive, but more like why!? What’s those questions have to do with the price of tea in china!?
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If she has a network, I'll ask the guys who've rated her for info, and if the pics are accurate, but looks are subjective. (Some dudes think anything bigger than rail thin is "fat".)
If she's new or she just has face pics, I'll ask her height/weight. Everybody has a preference, so I think it's a fair question. I don't want to waste anybody's time. I've met girls who's pics appeared to be hiding something, but were actually perfectly fine and just weren't good at taking pictures.
If you say you're 5'3" and 130, but I get there and you're clearly 5'5" and 190, I'm leaving.
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Stats as in like are they a handful, more than or less than?
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Some more stats, loose as a goose, spare tire, junk in the trunk
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Stats like "does your belly stick out more that your boobies do?"
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There are some things that I never ask a lady. I do like to see updated pictures though. Life is like a box of chocolates.....
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I like to ask shoe size.
Because if I see size 13 slippers.....those don't belong to her.
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I only ask if cim is offered, and some ladies still get offended!
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Never thought to list my shoe size (5) or my dress size (0) - not a misprint, it's zero. I'll add that to my information.
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^ hot woman is Marissa.
it's okay to ask but she has the right to ask you, it's how you ask, why you ask, when you ask, just pretend that you are at a bar at last call, you might not care as much.
Why do you care about her shoe size, if you want to find out, most ladies have gift pages on their websites, that will answer your questions or kinks.
you never know what her mood is at the moment she opens email or text, the stress factor might be peaking, you might get a fuck off response, assume she is in a pissed mood before you press "send" and she has already dealt with a shit ton of the just one more detail question type of dudes.
Realize that ladies deal with bullshit all day long, 96% of the time she is dealing with ghosts, those dudes whose kink is the false interlude + the power trip of ghosting, it is what they do.
I've done afternoon photoshoots where I am in the room as she is prepping for the evening, it's hilarious to hear some dude on the speaker and scary as fuck to read some of the texts or emails.
If her photos don't show you her as is, that's a red flag. If she says she is 40 and her photos are heavily filtered, she's probably in her late 50's.
Filtered for privacy is one thing, filtered to distort reality is another.
If her photos are out of focus, not invitan, poorly lit, obviously dated, photos were taken in a bed bug hotel, then why waste your time asking her bra size?
Realize that she deals with allot of bully assholes who just want to ridicule her, maybe not you, but that's her day.
If she is on other sites, you can tell more if the photos are current and consistent across all platforms, if she has work related X or Instagram, that will tell you more, I believe Private Delights has more detailed ways to screen, but then the photos don't jive.
Most ladies failed remedial marketing 101 and spend too much time churning or dealing with dudes with questions, photos are dated or taken with no context or point of view, pissy marketing and then they wonder what is wrong.
if you have to ask, why and if she's not your cup of tea, why persist? do your research.
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I think it good to ask. Cuz I saw a young woman on here. We were texting all day till the appointment. When I was with her some thing was off. So I ask her (PJ) she told I wasn’t what she use too. She asked me to leave. I respect her for telling me. But, she wasted my day. That I could have made others plans. So, I ask for measurement's and send a head shot. I do not want that to happen again. Also I seen some outdated pictures of peeps posted. My 2 cents. 🎤
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Marrisa I 😍 size 0
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I don’t see the point of my clothing size unless you’re planning on shopping for me! If not, than it’s useless information! Not offensive just a waste of my time if you’re not buying presents!!!
THATS JUST ME PERSONALLY
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I would ask or avoid if the pics aren't clear, partially obscured, heavily filtered, or a bit dated.
For most ladies on this thread, perfectpeach, marrisaG, kissaprilska1981, skurfergirl, and doctorphd, your profiles give us pretty good idea of who we will meet at the door. Their profiles pics should be a good example of what to post in the profiles.
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The only stats I'd like the ladies to list is height & weight.
It'd be kinda nice to know if they're 5'4" and weigh 115, 135, 160 etc along with a full body picture.
A lot of women seem to think 5'2" and 180 lbs is 'Height/weight proportionate'!
Just my $0.02.
Atticus Finch
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For some of us, cup size is very important.and whether they are up high or droopy.
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Escorting is a business and should be treated as such, if they dont respond to an initial message with a detailed menu including the relevant "stats" they clearly dont take their business seriously and they will most likely be disappointing or worse have poor hygiene. You shouldn't have to ask and if you do she is not worth it.
Imagine walking into a cell phone store and asking about the stats of a certain model and the salesmen being offended haha
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I once reached out to a lady a long time ago and asked her that question. Her response was “Why does it matter?” And I thought to myself it doesn’t. I was just asking because I really didn’t know what else to say. She had a bunch of photos up on the local websites which I liked and so I booked the appointment. She had an apartment somewhere in downtown San Francisco. Had a fabulous time together. Plus got to take a trip to the city.
So as long as she has a collection of photos that show what she looks like, it really doesn’t matter if she’s 36C or 34C. I’m there to meet the person, not stare at her boobs for 60minutes.
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Thank you all. I appreciate the comments.
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I like to ask for the shoe size and I like to let them know mine are 13 H
Regarding size I like to ask politely I say are you as fat as I am?
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I love the question 🙋♀️ I’m always told I’m a lot smaller in person then one might think 💭
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I've asked men similar questions and they got upset lol
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I couldn't agree with you more some gentle people 🤣🤣🤣 get offended when you ask them what's their credit score, zip code, SS#, and MCC # how dare of them to feel insulted. You can ask me anything 😘 it tickles my funny bone poking fun of my self and others 🤣🤣...
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After I have seen a lady for awhile, I may want to purchase some sexy lingerie, so I will ask lingerie sizes so I can bring the correct size.
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When, I’ve ask that question. They say, idk. WTF! They don’t know. Come on
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Imagine going to an "American" restaurant. They show you a few redacted pictures of the food which lack perspective, and give you no further information.
Your server tells you that your dinner will be $400.00, there's no menu per se, you'll just be getting what you get. You sit in anticipation. Will it be a Porterhouse steak? Baby back ribs? A really great gourmet burger? The dish finally arrives and it's liver and onions.
If it's offensive to ask, please improve your menu descriptions and photos!
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Ask potentially sensitive questions, like physical stats, in an overly polite way. She doesn't know you and you don't know her, yet.
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Why be offended? Men are paying for the experience and the major reason they choose you is because of what you portray in the photos. Many, many ladies post outdated pictures or recent ones that hide their insecurities. Why? I'm sure it would be worse if the monger just did an about face because you deceived them. You would have the audacity to mark them red! But in reality you should be the only one to receive the red mark!
I dig all body types and will send compliments when they post full frontals.
That's my take. Carry on and fuck... fuck... fuck...
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If they're going to post filtered 10 year old pics do you think they'll be completely honest about stats?
I've only walked out one time; unbelievably different.
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I just so happen to like Liver and Onions, Thank you very much
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It’s okay, as long as you’re polite with your intentions.
I am only 18 inches high, and I need to make sure I fit.
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Sure ask. Just be prepared for the answer. Will it be the truth? Or will you get blocked?
I thought you were never supposed to ask a woman's age or weight.
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I think if the lady has already listed that info , You should not ask
Matter of fact, Any info that she has taken the time to post , you should not ask. That is the reason the info is posted. She should not have to answer questions that have already been answered in her profile.
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If you ask a question, and the lady gets offended, then be glad. The session would not have worked out, anyway.
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I say ask away.
I like to know ahead of time if that burger comes with onions or not so that I can remove them if needed. I'm paying for something that I want, I feel like why not
So many people walk in and go "omg I didn't know that you were tall" lol. I wouldn't mind someone asking because if I'm not their cup of tea id rather them know before they come over. (Though I've had men who wont see tall women, meet me and change their minds) lol
Now as far as shoe size lol don't ask, you're going to be unhappy either way 😂😂😂😂
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My teachers taught me no question is a dumb question 
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Just as in any job interview. No reasonable questions answered, then will let you know if we want to move forward. Transparency goes way further than evasiveness.
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@Atticus_Finch, If you have the handle for 5'2" 180# let me know LOL : )
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Personally I don’t find it wrong with asking questions that you’re curious about.
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