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Sashabangzz
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Locked. No further comments permitted.Hello gentleman, looking for a cheat sheet
Jun 5 2024 06:37PM more by Sashabangzz
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

So although some people may not believe this, I just started this work about six months ago. I did it for a month so abs stopped and started again this last April. when I was 18 and 19 years old I danced and yes, this kind of work came with a territory I haven’t done it since then fast forward obviously everything is a lot different now and I have been on a dry streak for the last week. I’m looking at my post I’m looking at my pictures. Everything seems legit everything seems good but I haven’t had one appointment. I don’t know what it could be I’m very friendly. I’m very interactive. I’m very personable. I’m very down to,earth I don’t know why I’m not getting any responsesif someone can please indulge me with an answer or some advice. I would greatly appreciate it. Females are welcome too!
      
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samwee

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Jun 5 2024 06:41PM     link to this

Hey sweetheart
U look gorgeous. I've around for a long time
Pm me I might be able to help
If u leave ur number it would easier to repond
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Jun 5 2024 06:52PM     link to this

Deeeeeeeeep discounts!
lucious_licks
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jun 5 2024 08:33PM     link to this

So it’s not just me then
🤔🤔
uprightfun
Pasadena, SGV, LA, CA
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Jun 5 2024 08:56PM     link to this

@L_L

If Lake Forest weren't a 2-hour drive, I'd be paying you some attention.
lucious_licks
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jun 5 2024 09:16PM     link to this

Awe 🫢 thx ☺️ your so sweet!

Its been crickets for a couple weeks honestly 😫

Where are the hot spots guys?!!!
lucious_licks
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Jun 5 2024 09:36PM     link to this

Not mine so I don’t know why I’m having a issue right now
longwalker
CA
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Jun 6 2024 09:10AM     link to this

Inflation is the problem. Everything is more expensive. So, people have less disposable income.
Trojantony27
LA, CA
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Jun 6 2024 09:20AM     link to this

Agree with longwalker, inflation is the culprit, I make a pretty good living for So Cal.
But my extra disposable cash is shrinking, plus now I have to save even more to go on a simple couple days vacation.

Plus some ladies are now charging up to $400/hour, I don’t mind $275 or $300/hour, but $400?? I’ve been disappointed a few times when I’ve dished out the 400, just not worth it.

I get it, you ladies need to make a living too, but if you’re going to charge a lot, give a lot, be true to your menu…
longwalker
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Jun 6 2024 09:44AM     link to this

PS. The lady's that ask 300/400, are asking as much as an independent lawyer.
Just not worth it for a memory.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Jun 6 2024 11:51PM     link to this

Like Uber and Lyft. It is always slow in June and January.

Inflation is killing it to, and Covid make it happen.
saber_tooth_909
Ontario, Inland Empire, CA
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Jun 7 2024 05:42AM     link to this

Luckily I'm starting to find other options for myself. Starting to use this less and less.
yogibronx
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jun 7 2024 06:54AM     link to this

Saber...what are the other options you found?
SeymourButz
Humboldt, CA
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Jun 7 2024 07:29AM     link to this

I pick up chics at the bus terminal.
Pjforfun
Austin, TX
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Jun 7 2024 08:22AM     link to this

I bought my right hand a diamond ring
scotty949
OC, CA
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Jun 7 2024 09:03AM     link to this

My thoughts on this somewhat align with Trojantony. When I am looking to hang out with somebody I do find that I gravitate to trusted friends that honor their menu (such as DFK) and are 3hr. Inflation has been tough on everyone and one big cut in my discretionary budget has been in this area.

While I have met lovely women that I vibe with really well, I generally don't go back if they want over 4 or 5. The fact is most of these experiences are for a 'moment in time' and unfortunately get wrapped up in a transactional value thought process. At this time, with this economy I don't take changes with meeting somebody new that has higher rates.

Grumpy_Butthead
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Jun 7 2024 09:35AM     link to this

The inflation has stopped these two


longwalker can't send mail at the moment, but if you unlock some for them, they would certainly appreciate it!

samwee can't send mail at the moment, but if you unlock some for them, they would certainly appreciate it!
saber_tooth_909
Ontario, Inland Empire, CA
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Jun 7 2024 11:17AM     link to this

Lol PJs got the right idea 💡
longwalker
CA
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Jun 7 2024 02:57PM     link to this

Hey "Grumpy_Butthead" send me some points. I'm sure you have plenty to spare.
Devin_Peridot
LA, CA
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Jun 7 2024 06:18PM     link to this

Is the problem that you aren't getting responses to your ad or that the men responding don't book?

Those would have completely different solutions.
Yo_Pauly
Mission Bay/Beach, San Diego, CA
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Jun 7 2024 07:02PM     link to this

Maybe you could offer "viewing sessions" for a discounted rate where the client would satisfy themselves as they look at your beauty with no physical contact. I know of at least one person that would be interested in that kind of thing.
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Jun 7 2024 10:45PM     link to this

I don't care what your rates are
If you can loan me the money up front
Kelseyforyou
Corona, Inland Empire, CA
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Jun 8 2024 12:49AM     link to this

Honestly I have no idea why this is happening to you, but I wanted to let people on here know that I actually worked with Sasha and she’s the sweetest and hottest girl. Really worths every penny! xoxo
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Jun 8 2024 03:12AM     link to this

Kelseyforyou, you fine! Hollar at me if you in the Glendale real mama.
Juiicyfruitbri
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Jun 8 2024 09:14AM     link to this

I’ve been on here for years and have probably met 3 good ppl . It’s okay girl
JR718
Newport Beach, OC, CA
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Jun 8 2024 09:14AM     link to this

Along the lines of Trojantony27's comments, a lot of women are asking 300-400 half hour for their time. While they can ask whatever they want, the demand will dictate the economics for their consulting services. Also, the rates have increased much faster than GDP and inflation rates. So if you think a guy will pay a 200% increase for consulting services he can get for free elsewhere, you're fooling yourself.

Be realistic. There are over 1,000 consultants on here competing for the same clients.

As for your pics, take off the blurry filter, smile more, and look at some of the poses used by other women that catch the eye like these.
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AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Jun 8 2024 10:07AM     link to this

Even if the vibe is good, value can and often gets in the way.
June.Moon
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
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Jun 8 2024 07:19PM     link to this

I haven't had any issues I just don't have the time like I used to due to school ...


Maybe send me a PM and I can help??




I will start a group chat and answer questions
tony68
San Juan Capistrano, OC, CA
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Jun 8 2024 10:29PM     link to this

I used to be a lot more active on here, but after covid hit the rates went way up but my income stayed the same

I go to TJ now, their rates went up too but much less than here

I hope to be active here again, I have met some great ladies
ArkSangel
SFV, LA, CA
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Jun 8 2024 10:51PM     link to this

@Sasha pm me info
a310guy
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Jun 9 2024 12:55AM     link to this

i agree with tony, the girls in tj, are pretty hot, and you can choose whoever u want
For me its kind of far and plus the time is another thing..

anyways hope things steady themselves here, and yes the market dictates prices
Kelseyforyou
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Jun 9 2024 12:50PM     link to this

what’s tj?
June.Moon
Fountain Valley, OC, CA
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Jun 9 2024 12:55PM     link to this

I can tell you that the number one thing men care about is hygiene and how you make them feel . 97 percent of my inquires come from word of mouth or recommendations .


Even the little things count like having bottled water, fresh towels, a clean environment and a positive attitude will make a big difference. The most thing I hear men complain about are rates


Keep your rates at what you feel they're worth but have something special for those who consistently see you . When I go to my nail shop I love that they provide snacks and free champagne. Yeah I can get my own but some things just make a little difference .


Consistency.... My biggest issue is "out of sight out of mind" and I don't reply back or reach out to people often. Men want to feel wanted to! Remembering things like who likes what makes you stand out


Make sure that you take care of yourself. If you're burned out it will show. Also always being available will make men put you on the back end because "well I can always see her but this other girl is hardly around so let me see her while I can"


Keep your word and be reliable . Most men won't see someone if they think it's a waste. After all they're the ones making


And don't indulge in bad habits like substances and materialistic stuff ESPECIALLY if you like proper money management .




Check out my new club FREE GAME for the rest
June.Moon
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Jun 9 2024 12:58PM     link to this

After all they're the ones making an investment in you (typo)

And don't indulge in bad habits LACK (not like) substances and materialistic stuff ESPECIALLY if you like proper money management .







Hint

If you can make $400 a day that's 12,000 a month ... Think about it 💋
June.Moon
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Jun 9 2024 01:07PM     link to this

Lmfao ok! The second one i put the correction in the wrong spot lmfao (lack proper money management)















This is why I shouldn't comment while driving smh!



My bad y'all my bad I'm done blogging 🤣😂 clearly I need to wait until I park smh sorry
thefish
San Diego, CA
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Jun 9 2024 04:48PM     link to this

Kelsey - TJ = Tijuana

A lot of San Diego guys prefer going over the border versus paying US rates. Not my thing, but to each their own.
1ronvas
SGV, LA, CA
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Jun 9 2024 08:39PM     link to this

Im a Native born in Mexico City , speak the language fluently . The reason I only use Hx is for safety. Anyone that thinks Mexico to engage in our Hobby is safe is deceiving themselves, no matter the price!
a310guy
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Jun 10 2024 01:57AM     link to this

whether u use the site or go somewhere else, nothing is foolproof.


Be safe where ever u have fun.
DoctorPhD
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Jun 11 2024 01:02PM     link to this

June that's great advice love I couldn't have said it better myself. Send me that club invite. I'm game 🎮
Easido
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Jun 13 2024 03:59PM     link to this

Hey Sasha. You know I've sent you over a dozen guys in the last 30 days. If you want to know what's going on. Give me a call. You have my number. Hope to talk to you soon. And I hope things get better for you. You know I send as many guys your way as I can.
vince2001
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Jun 13 2024 06:33PM     link to this

@ Shasha, also being acting to the blogs you start is helpful. Also, consider a inexpensive naughty album that require Points. It’s NOT the steak, it’s the sizzle.
SkylarStone
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Jun 13 2024 08:05PM     link to this

I’m 1000% with June…

Be you, clean hygiene is a must, but you gotta find your niche… do what works for you. Take breaks, make a connection & be yourself. Have fun!

June creating a group would be great! 🥰😘
BigpleaserII
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2024 11:47AM     link to this

Try not totally blowing off clients.

We set up an appointment day before with Sasha. Set time. She gave me her address.

Confirmed the next morning. Touched base midday. She gave me her apt number.

Touched base half hour before confirmed time. She confirms.

I arrive, look around and realize she gave me a bogus apt number. Doesn't exist.

I text three times over 20 mins. Crickets. Text her I'm leaving.

Get home painted her red.

Never heard from the bitch. I would waste a minute of your time on this one.
HungryMan4u
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Jul 26 2024 11:58AM     link to this

I would also add, re: your pics.. Resting bitch face never entices guys,, they can get that at home.
EncinitasBrian
Encinitas, San Diego, CA
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Jul 26 2024 02:39PM     link to this

For longwalker and many of the guys above INFLATION IS NOT THE PROBLEM.

See data below.

(If you don't believe me, look it up yourself.)

"High inflation" is a myth widespread on our society now. Yes, it was high in 2021.

This was used by businesses to justify higher costs and prices when there genuinely was higher inflation. The inflation abated over the last several years, but businesses have continued to raise prices gouging the public.

IMO many providers similarly have continued to raise their donations. Am I going to part with 300/hhr or 400-500/hr? No way.

"As of July 11, 2024, the inflation rate in the United States was 3.0% for the 12-month period ending in June 2024, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics. This is measured by the Consumer Price Index (CPI), which increased from 314.069 in the previous month to 314.175 in June 2024. The last time the CPI was below 3.0% was in March 2021, when it was 2.6%.
The inflation rate for food increased 2.2% and energy prices increased 1.0% for the year ending in June 2024"

NotMrAverage
San Diego, CA
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Jul 26 2024 06:36PM     link to this

OP - your photos have the look of ones taken 20 years ago.
Not saying they are that old, but they look that way. Something about the resolution, color balance, etc.
June.Moon
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Jul 28 2024 11:04AM     link to this

My girls club is under construction and will be open very soon! Pm me for the link



Setting up an all girls brunch in August if you ladies are up for it



Happy Sunday
sherkahn
Diamond Bar, SGV, LA, CA
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Jul 28 2024 02:44PM     link to this

Have you thought about using split testing marketing?

Send some info that mentions some of your better traits, other marketing that promotes your services, and a third about something that makes you stand out from others. See which one gives you the best reaction, and build upon that line of marketing.
remo_williams
Irvine, OC, CA
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Jul 28 2024 08:00PM     link to this

Like the others said, smile.

I don't see a single pic that you posted that has you smiling.

All things being equal, a smile will attract clients faster than anything else.

Best of luck.
PornCaptain43
La Jolla, San Diego, CA
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Jul 28 2024 10:25PM     link to this

Can I be honest?

You're not a bad looking girl, but those photos can be grouped in two buckets bad and worse.

Have you seen them yourself? Avoid photos in motel bathrooms If you take 25 photos and only 3 of them are good don't post 15.

#2 Your rate is 200 hhr whats the hr rate? I have never paid for 1/2 hour in my life and that makes you look like a streetwalker who stumbled onto HX


#3 Value the regular. Clearly you didn't I would think.


#4 Take pride in your work and value the regular something of a lost art or mindset..Just because the phone always rings does'nt mean you can burn bridges because one day that phone will stop ringing and then what.

I hope this helps it was well intended..and if you can take it that way and if you are ever in the SD area PM me.

aznboytoi
Rosemead, SGV, LA, CA
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Jul 29 2024 02:36AM     link to this

ive said to many girls and blogs before inflation will ruin the industry, 200 for a qk
is a joke
ill never pay that price even if I was Elon musk
that's why when I see the high rates i move on
and don't look back, can easily find similar service for
cheaper
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