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Jun 19 2024 01:16PM more by SkurferGurl
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that shows her age, as she's getting older?
None of us are getting any younger, this interests me for the obvious reasons & it could be educational for younger women.

Is it:
Weight
Hands
Face and body wrinkles
Posture

Personally I've noticed a few of these changes in myself and I'm too chicken to play God and get procedures, however I have to consider the "turn offs" on being a mature woman.

I'm grateful I'm still able to turn heads as I'm getting older and I feel great too.


      
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seanheckler
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Jun 19 2024 01:46PM     link to this

For me, it's usually the hands... AFAIK, there isn't much that can be done to "turn back the clock" on hands as they age other than general hydration and skin maintenance, and a lifetimes worth of sun exposure to them is hard to avoid.

I'm not I would call signs of age a "turn off", but it certainly can have you question what else isn't as it appears when the the hands say 50+ but the profile tries to suggest 20 or more years younger.
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Jun 19 2024 01:51PM     link to this

Mel...I would have to say face and body wrinkles, as well as weight (for some). However, this goes for guys too, not just the ladies. At 59, I definitely have the former going on...and I do put on pounds faster than when I did at 29. That's why carbs and sugar, as much as I love them, are my nemeses.

That being said, you are still an absolute fox and I hope we can be playmates for years to come
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Jun 19 2024 01:53PM     link to this


Hands. You can always tell by the hands.

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Jun 19 2024 02:13PM     link to this

Attitude.
SkurferGurl
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Jun 19 2024 02:40PM     link to this

^^ better or bad attitude?

The hands, I hear that a lot.

kingnorriss, you got it hunny !!! & Thank you kind Sir.
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Jun 19 2024 02:57PM     link to this

Def the balls, if they saggin, they old
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Driver's License
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Jun 19 2024 03:29PM     link to this

Elbows

I had an ex inject fat into her hands and face, total rejuvenation. She said they can’t do anything about elbows and now that’s all I see.
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Jun 19 2024 03:32PM     link to this

its the hands, maybe neck / double chins / loose skin

but that doesnt mean un-sexy,
if the water is still driping its all good
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Jun 19 2024 03:47PM     link to this

bingo wings.
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If her main source of travel is a broom.
If she voted for Eisenhower.
If she drove in Edsel.
If she remembers one gasoline was 25 cents a gallon
SkurferGurl
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Jun 19 2024 05:32PM     link to this

What a butthead lol
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To me the worst is when someone tries too hard to deny their age. Natural always looks better than too much Botox, etc. Grace and confidence as one ages beats trying to look younger. Helen Mirren is a perfect example.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Jun 19 2024 07:13PM     link to this

What a butthead lol

Your point??

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Jun 19 2024 07:29PM     link to this

The neck is a big giveaway with some Women.

Plastic surgery makes women look worse also.
RobBlakeFan
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Jun 19 2024 08:03PM     link to this

^
This. I hate the plastic look. I really like the ladies closer to my age. Wear it proud ladies.
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Jun 19 2024 08:14PM     link to this

Iam so fearful of the sun wrinkling me up. If Im forced to meet the sun, you will never catch me without a sweatshirt, hat n long sleeves. I also have a horrendous habit of putting oil on my hands uhhmillion times in and out of public😫 - it’s quite the conversation starter at the lunch table😂 but not long after everyone else is oiling up their dehydration of a dermis.

I cant change gettin older in fact I’ve embraced it- prevention starts now young twenty yr olds.

Xoxo
SkurferGurl
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Jun 19 2024 09:57PM     link to this

Right on sonya!!

Myself, being born in the desert on the river and then learning to surf in the ocean very young and most of my life I was destin to be in the sun I suppose.

Thankfully I've always been a fan of oiling up and lotion, creams all day, certain vitamins seem to help too.

The past 10 years I don't go anywhere without a hat and some sleeves are important too.

The feedback from the gentleman were great, thank you !!

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Jun 19 2024 10:57PM     link to this

Definitely protection from the sun is important. Many guys I know including me do not like the plastic surgery/injection look, except maybe breast implants. Being fit & slender helps. Tbh, make up helps when done well but I can understand why someone would want to use it. I am not a fan of tattoos and piercings and I think sometimes they age poorly, but they are common, for sure. Hands show age but usually I'm not looking at the hands. Neat nails help. We can't do much about getting older, so we must enjoy the age we are currently.
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Jun 19 2024 11:15PM     link to this

The oldest thing that I notice most often on a woman is . . . me .

As others said in posts above, I think attitude can present better than physical appearance sometimes. Some of us get beaten down, bitter, stressed, tired etc. and that can make us seem older. If we keep a sense of humor and perspective, taken decent care of ourselves and try to stay healthy and positive, the rest often falls in place.

This pic from MeL's album will always make me think of her as a young lady



Chasing youth is a game no one wins so I'd echo the comment from RobBlakeFan "Wear it proud ladies." There's a lot of women on this site with plenty to be proud of.
SkurferGurl
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Jun 19 2024 11:31PM     link to this

Awwwww Steve such kind words!!!!
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Jun 19 2024 11:34PM     link to this

+1 Kingnorris

And SK you're aging very well. I think diet has a lot to do with it. Now let's go hit the waves so you can teach this old dog a new trick.
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Jun 20 2024 12:01AM     link to this

crows feet and neck area usually stand out for me
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Jun 20 2024 12:08AM     link to this

You don't have to be scared of procedures anymore. New technology allows you to "fix" areas you would like to look younger. All without pain or injury to tissue.

Check the link:

Attached Links
Cold Jett Plasma is what you want
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Jun 20 2024 12:24AM     link to this

Neck gives it away.
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Jun 20 2024 07:36AM     link to this

Also say it is the neck. We shoot a lot of portraits of "women of a certain age" and one of the main retouch areas is the neck.
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The knees and elbows.
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Jun 20 2024 01:11PM     link to this

It's always the hands that give away your age.

And to all the young folks out there, here's some friendly advice: moisturize, moisturize, moisturize!
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The adult diapers cause they’re always leaking every time
They sneeze or cough
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Turkey neck
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Jun 21 2024 06:59AM     link to this

I like old broads. Old Broads Rule.
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Jul 15 2024 02:07PM     link to this

^ I feel the same way. Closer the lady is to my age, the more we have in common and topics to discuss.
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Jul 16 2024 08:26AM     link to this

When we were young no one told us we would look old

For half of our lives. It’s an unfortunate fact if we rely on

Our beauty to make a living.
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crows feet neck hands and leaning forward when they walk.
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Posture, losing height, for various reasons.
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Jul 16 2024 09:59AM     link to this

"leaning forward when they walk"

Everyone is picturing that I'm sure LOL

Very reasonable, respectful comments, thank you (thumbs up)
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Jul 16 2024 11:27AM     link to this

Since I cannot see. How the fuck would I know?

It would be necessary for me to ascertain an opinion to do a full body cavity search.

Of course I would have to find the proper probe.
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the heavy use of photo filters

SkurferGurl
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@Grympy_Buttbrain if you can't see them WTF do you care LOL
He's growing zucchini probes Ha ha ha

As far as those photo filters go, to Hell with that, everyone has flaws.

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When I look in the mirror I see no flaws.
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I stopped looking in the mirror because there was always this old man looking back at me.
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^Wait a few more years and you’ll notice he’s not getting any younger.
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Hands. Neck. Elbows.
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You are beautiful sis !!!!! Regardless your age young or not as long as you take care of yourself and make genuine connections than it’s all good . 💕sometimes personality over weighs age 💕
Self love is the best love and anything after that follows 💕

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Exoticbabygirl so wise. Age is just a number and connection, attitude, and a fun spirit are far more important than the age of the person.
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Jul 16 2024 11:53PM     link to this

+1
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Jul 17 2024 07:26AM     link to this

Exoticbabygirl I absolutely agree!
SkurferGurl
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Exoticbabygirl and June.Moon I appreciate y'all !!!!!

The most important thing in looking good is feeling good, staying as healthy as you can or want to, drinking water, vitamins, eating healthy, exercise are so important !! I'm sure all can agree...

Growing older is a beautiful blessing, embrace it the best way you can or want to, I believe the heart never grows old just fills up with memories of good times.
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Jul 17 2024 11:35AM     link to this


SkurferGurl , after looking at you working in your garden with a mini Short , T shirt and flops you look fresh, vital, energetic and young .
And yes you take care of yourself, you eat healthy food and you are always active doing something around , you barely eat outside .
I appreciate you let me cook my own healthy stuff when I am around😁
Is good to be around people with good vibes and who take care of themselves.
I will take some fresh honey and natural coconut soap when i go and visit 😉
See you any time! ,I miss the bread you bake , the banana bread and the morning ☕️
I need some California summer adventures, to cold here 😘

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Jul 17 2024 11:41AM     link to this

^ what Sxy wrote is an appropriate end to this thread
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