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PornCaptain43
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Rarer than a bigfoot sighting ....
Aug 6 2024 04:02AM more by PornCaptain43
Tags: San Diego , Townhall (All tags)


I hear and get myself my share of providers asking me for help. Every hobbyist gets asked for sh!t...There are even clubs here devoted to the down-on-her-luck provider. Not all but most are legit but there are some I won't name the club but one used to be run by a level 5 scumbag (l The Real XXXuido) looking for deep discounts in return for leveling up..I digress.

But by and large most hobbyists have pretty good hearts, I have seen & heard of many cases of the generosity of my hobbyist brothers even participated in my fair share myself.

It is me or does this phenomenon seem to flow in only one direction from Hobbyist to Provider like a one-way street? Kindness can come at a high price here

What are some examples of a provider's generosity or are they rarer than being struck by lightning or a big foot sighting ..?
      
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loucfirr1
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Aug 6 2024 05:25AM     link to this

Some providers have been very generous with me.

jimmmyz
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Aug 6 2024 08:18AM     link to this

I agree with the above comment. Some providers have been extremely generous with their time, and most importantly, their actions.
SkurferGurl
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Aug 6 2024 01:53PM     link to this

Yeah well....
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sexystephie
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Aug 7 2024 08:50PM     link to this

Financially it probably flows one way. But whenever I have been in a bind and got a little $ help I have paid it back. Usually w an appt but also w money. Doing off the clock stuff like going out to eat or bringing a home cooked meal are things I have done. Or baking. So depends what you are asking about. I doubt men who participate in this activity would need to borrow money. So it may seem one sided.
bird
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Aug 7 2024 11:45PM     link to this

I've had several ladies "make it up to me" with extra time or reduced rates when they flaked or were late or just because they appreciate me, usually without me even asking. Through the rating system, I believe hx is very good at weeding out the bad apples, although I'm sure there are some.
bird
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Aug 7 2024 11:54PM     link to this

Not sure about your network, though, op.
TNBE
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Aug 8 2024 03:03AM     link to this

I've seen Bigfoot...lol
June.Moon
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Aug 8 2024 06:39AM     link to this

Sounds like you haven't met the right ladies



If gifted bday gifts, toys, and I even like paying attention to the little things that my friends like so that I can get it for them. Things like cock rings or special outfits that they may be scared to get for themselves. I grant deals and additional time when I have mistakes such as miscommunication, have to cancel or am running late (I'm working on it I promise lol) but to the people that treat me nicely I go above and beyond to reciprocate.





You have been on this weird rant for a few days. I had to learn that what you put out is what you get. I'm not perfect and I realized that sometimes we are the problem lol. If every interaction that you have had went wrong, maybe it's not the people that you hang out with that's an issue but moreso yourself. Self reflection is always a great first step . Try it with me 🥰
dblednmike
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Aug 8 2024 06:58AM     link to this

I’ve experienced it coming back to me several times, from many ladies, including June. It’s all about the people you choose to spend your time and money on.
Grumpy_Butthead
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Aug 8 2024 07:08AM     link to this

PornCaptain43
Back stabbing in Random Abyss?

Why?
PornCaptain43
La Jolla, San Diego, CA
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Aug 8 2024 07:42AM     link to this

^^ Huh? William Faulkner you aint.

Grumpy_Butthead
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Aug 8 2024 07:49AM     link to this

Accucurate is not part of you.
Fantasy.Girl
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Aug 8 2024 05:22PM     link to this

Examples:

Wears the more expensive products/outfits for you
Provides snack food & drinks
Lights candles
Provides mouthwash & unscented soap
Gives you her last baby wipes
Grandfathers you in when her time becomes more expensive
Gets a nicer place to host

AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Aug 9 2024 09:59AM     link to this

+1 ^ , second from last. Sadly, I decided not to see someone because of that. I know it's a business, sometimes value gets in the way of thinking with the little one.
PornCaptain43
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Aug 9 2024 10:42AM     link to this

Moon over Marin!


"Sounds like you haven't met the right ladies"

* lol June Moon always the master of the obvious! Tell me babe where do you get those absolutely, mediocre powers of perception?

"You have been on this weird rant for a few days. I had to learn that what you put out is what you

get. I'm not perfect and I realized that sometimes we are the problem lol. If every interaction that

you have had went wrong, maybe it's not the people that you hang out with that's an issue but

moreso yourself. Self-reflection is always a great first step . "


I love you June Moon! You are beautiful and getting hotter by the day.... thanks for the dime store psycho-analysis above. I will keep this forever and file it with everything else you have given me under uses unknown. Just another example of how selfless, kind, and generous you are...was that free or will I be invoiced?

Seriously June Moon! I know it is stupid of me to lend anyone money period. Especially here on HX.

........ but when you go on to say it's ........

" not the people that you hang out with that's the issue but more so yourself"

Huh? wtf? did you slip and hit your pretty fing head? As for the Try it with me �. I asked you if what you were up to a few weeks back and at that time I was killing it now im getting killed! Ouch!

Actually, yesterday was huge and today is looking pretty good too! Let me know if you're free anytime soon I'm ready to spoil somebody!



Try it with me �
June.Moon
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Aug 9 2024 12:47PM     link to this

There's a reason why you've had 100 accounts with ALL bad reports hun.. so when I say that it's you, I speak from my personal in person experience.







Happy Friday everyone ...
PornCaptain43
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Aug 9 2024 01:51PM     link to this

100? Happy Friday, June Moon!
Atticus_Finch
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Aug 9 2024 04:52PM     link to this

As a matter of fact:

There have been several of the women here and on er review that have been in dire straights that I've helped out. I didn't expect anything in return, the gift is in the giving, but amazingly they've all contacted me after the fact and have been more than generous. Kinda restored my faith in humanity a bit.

So yeah. It might not show up in the same form but it does show up. AND even if it doesn't you've still banked 'karma points', which if you're like me and would like to clean up your karma, IS priceless!!!

Atticus Finch
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