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Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Reciprocate
Aug 16 2024 10:08AM more by Latin_Lover
Tags: LA, Leisure (All tags)

I don't understand why someone after you drive over 1.5 Hrs. to get to a meeting where everything went good or very good, and you rate the meeting the counterpart won't do the same.
The question is why won't you reciprocate,

It's because you don't allow yourself to spend like 2 minutes to do it.

Is it because you forget to do it

Is it because you have high concept of yourself that you think you're like a diva not worthy of some ordinary guy

Is it because you're to lazy

Is it because you didn't like the counterpart

Is it because you didn't like how the meeting go

Is it just because you don't feel like it, and you feel you don't owe anything to th counterpart

So please let us know why is it that you don't reciprocate
      
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Grumpy_Butthead
NM
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since Jan 30 2016

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Aug 16 2024 10:24AM     link to this

If it isn't the broker.

It's because they can't answer the questions.

Don't expect too much from some
Marrisa_G
San Diego, CA
OC, CA Today!
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since Sep 23 2021

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Aug 16 2024 10:53AM     link to this

Not everyone desires to be rated. All you have to do is ask politely.
Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Aug 16 2024 11:19AM     link to this

Has always asked politely. For me a no reciprocate is an invitation to never have a meeting again.
cutler
Irvine, OC, CA
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since Jul 15 2011

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Aug 16 2024 11:35AM     link to this

I had a good experience a couple of days ago. Asked her to rate me and I would rate her back. I told her I was just trying to build a more recent network to see other ladies who require it.

She said sure, no problem. I texted a polite reminder, still nothing. I finally gave up.

Unfortunately it wasn't the first and I'm sure it won't be the last.
coolNeasy
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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since Sep 7 2008

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Aug 16 2024 12:20PM     link to this

It might just be the "what's in it for me" mentality. Maybe if there were FX points offered for ratings. But yes, usually pretty hit and miss. And then of course ratings just drop once someone leaves HX too. Not a perfect setup. Destined to be a happy L0 forever.
HungryMan4u
Santa Clarita, North of LA, LA, CA
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since Dec 30 2021

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Aug 16 2024 12:37PM     link to this

I always rate and ask politely in PM to reciprocate if she hasnt already rated
If after a week with no reply or no rate back, I just delete my rating .
Even if 2 SECOND rating which only rates Safety and Karma, how long does that take?
Ratings are the lifeblood of this site to insure safety, some dont get the message.

Devin_Peridot
LA, CA
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since Jan 11 2020

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Aug 16 2024 01:20PM     link to this

I've had a number of guys not rate me after meeting and I figure they just forgot. I tend to just let it go. I'm sure I have forgotten a few myself. If I don't do it right away the likelihood of remembering to do it later is slim to none so a friendly reminder more than welcome, it's appreciated!
Lusin_Jan7
Van Nuys, SFV, LA, CA
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Aug 16 2024 01:26PM     link to this

Unfortunately not everyone plays by the rules 🤣🤣 and that's fine by me just don't come back crying like a little biatch with "why have you not rated me" when I first join this site I was under the assumption that rules and policies were applied across the board, 😱🤣🤣 Boy was seriously mistaken. Anyhow I even send a thank you note to one of my guest assuming I had been rated what fool!!! 🤣🤣🤣 it was me rating him since I wasn't familiar with the site It was me issuing a rating that's what I was reading. Once we're done with session I ask them would you rate me please and would you like me to rate you? Some agreed others says no and other even reply with " please don't" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 however they take the time and energy to rate me on a different site/platform since I have many adds throughout the net
PingS59
Inland Empire, CA
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since Jul 3 2006

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Aug 16 2024 02:52PM     link to this

All you can do is ask politely.

I'm not sure if HX still terminates your ability to rate people at a specific %? Happened to me years ago. In order to rate people I had to terminate a portion of the network list.
Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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since May 9 2011

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Aug 17 2024 07:53AM     link to this

So what's the purpose of rating:

To let the community know you're a reliable and safe person.

To help you escalete the different levels, although I have never known how that really works.

To create a reliable network
SkylarStone
San Diego, CA
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since Jul 16 2021

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Aug 17 2024 03:03PM     link to this

I rate everyone I see. The rating system is in place for a good reason. Not everyone is the same and unfortunately I don’t understand that. It’s not hard, but that’s something maybe you should discuss next time prior to. Also, can’t see a newbie and expect a higher level experience out of someone just starting off 🤷🏽‍♀️
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