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Let me guess: Perhaps they are waiting to book a hotel until they know that there's a client?
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^ That's fine, just don't "I'm on my way" at the appointed time.
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I agree Upright,
Ladies sometimes put out multiple classifieds. (I think two is the max however.)
They do this even as they are sitting at home, and wait to see if anyone books for either location.
Then they make arrangements to host at that location, when they car assured they will have visitors.
THey do this so they dont book a room and find they have no takers and are out the room fee.
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just ask...
what's the big deal?
If you want to see someone, you will make the trip.
If you are just looking to see anyone, I'm sure you will find that too.
There are a lot of reasons people don't post exactly where, so that the time and ask. 
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Dalia, respectfully you missed the point. If girls want to attract more professionals, they need to have more transparency to their location and location. Ralizability and follow through creates a dependable regular. I
I get it. Some girl list Los Angeles, but not where in LA. Do you want a network of randoms? Or affluent schedulers? My time supersedes the fishing đŁ, and I love it when a merchant acknowledges the filtering and communication to facilitate.
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When one gets serious or confirmed, if need be, I'll ask for a cross street or fwy off ramp.
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La, San Diego and OC are huge . The difference can make or break you 20 mins if you think someone is in Costa Mesa but they're actually in lake forest or San Clemete .
Men need to plan out their day, travel time and schedule so I understand why needing to know the location is important
Do not give the person the exact location to where you are, but you can always pick a grocery store or somewhere near to give them an idea of how far their travels will be
This will make it easier for both parties
Also ladies in your classified instead of putting "in OC" put " in Irvine" or the specific city so the guys can see where you are without having to waste time asking
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June you're such a smart lady you hit the nail in the head đ
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I try to be very respectful of everyone's time, and hope that they respect mine as well.
I am normally centrally located in San Diego so I usually don't spell out specifics of where I am at unless they ask, and even then I give out a nearby landmark. I am literally 25 minutes from just about anywhere in the greater San Diego area, north, south, east, or west. But when I am in the OC/LA area I give a general location (a 1-mile radius) because of the vast distances or time it could take to get to me, a lot of times depending on traffic at various times of the day.
In general, this works out pretty well except for those few people who seem to view effective time management as a one-way street.
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A couple reasons we might be vague when posting our location
⢠We may not have chosen the hotel yet but still want to do an announcement for the area.
That could be because we're waiting for gents to pm and pre-book,
it can be very helpful to reach out and tell the lady you're interested and what city you prefer!
⢠Hotels can be right on the border between two cities and we're not sure what to write!
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What June said ^^^
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We old guys remember that before GPS there was something called âcross streetsâ. The large intersection nearest your location is your âcross streetsâ. That was so the person trying to find you would know which map page to go to. For the ladies, just say my nearest intersection isâŚâŚ.
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Jimmy. Iâll pull out my Thomas Guide
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I don't believe I missed the point.
In my opinion... anyone can plan out their day with the right information. If the info you need is not posted, reach out and ask.
..and while I do agree driving time is a factor. Try to keep in mind that just because there is a post doesn't mean the person is available in your time frame, or if it's a 1st meeting and they wish to screen, have the time to do that.
My point was.. reach out, say hello, ..just ask. Communication is key!
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I know I try to communicate, but sometimes the messages only go one way. I may schedule a visit at 11am and ask which hotel. Some of the time I donât get a response until 10:30 or 10:45. By then I canât get there on time. And just because the ad on hx says Irvine or Anaheim or near JWA, it doesnât mean I know exactly where to be. Just one guyâs opinion.
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That's why I offer prebooking. 
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Sexy Nurse outfit and teasingly holding a French Cruller?
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it doesn't matter even if they tell u where they are, they could say HYATT across from Disneyland,
you can set a time and they say ok ill text u room # when u get to parking lot, a couple of times I got
there, and they totally blew me off, no text no call no nothing, their previous meetinting must of turned
into a multiple hour and they just blow you off, It really pissed me off, I waited an hour or so and split.
I didn't even ding them, i should have, I don't know I kinda felt SORRY for them, I've had some great
experiences and some funky ones to, but its life, you win some you lose some, nothings in STONE
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Jimmy got the point đŤĄ
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Sorry, but always remember where we are
Cap
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Sir, this is a Wendyâs
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You can normally can tell after a couple of pms who's likely to cause problems. I usually ask for cross street or fwy exit, and if I don't get a straight answer, I would pass.
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why not ask?
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Some guys have work schedules that don't allow for prebooking. Also they have to evade girlfriends and/or wives to visit, and that can be challenging too! Knowing a general location is extremely helpful in these instances!
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Even Freeways are a great landmark to use, as it's to know how much time it's going to take to get there - is all anyone needs to know until a confirmed booking is in place.
Example 1 :
Irvine JWA area , Costa Mesa (SCP area)
Gent: Where are you ?
Lady : Near the 405 & 55
Example 2 :
Irvine Spectrum area
Gent: Where are you ?
Lady: Near the 5 & 405 aka The El Toro Y
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