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My thoughts after going to a dear friends funeral today
Oct 19 2024 07:11PM more by SmittinSasha
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Life is fleeting, and it passes more quickly than we often realize. Each day is a reminder that our time here is limited, and that makes every moment precious. Holding onto grudges or bitterness only wastes the time we have, preventing us from fully experiencing the beauty around us. The fact that you are alive, breathing, and able to feel is a miracle in itself. We should focus on appreciating what we have, cherishing our loved ones, and finding joy in the small moments. Life is too short to let negativity consume us. In the end, all that matters is the love we give and the memories we create. Let today be a reminder to live fully, love deeply, and forgive easily.
      
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Torpedo.Jones
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Oct 19 2024 07:22PM     link to this


Sorry for your loss, it’s something that happens to all of us unfortunately
Let’s be Thankful for the memories and value each day we’re still here
SmittinSasha
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Oct 19 2024 07:27PM     link to this

The thing that I find the hardest from losing someone you love or care about is that you don’t get over grief, you learn to live with it.
Eventual
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Oct 19 2024 07:29PM     link to this

I'm sorry for your loss. The hard part is forgetting that they're gone, then suddenly remembering. Hold onto the good memories.
AFMadness
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Oct 19 2024 10:07PM     link to this

I know what you mean. I lost a friend that I meet here years ago, last May. Sometimes I think of what she may have missed since then.

Your are right about the grief. Time doesn't really heal, the loss just lays domant, until / if when one gets keyed into the loss.

Take care though,...


SmittinSasha
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Oct 19 2024 10:12PM     link to this

I’m sorry for your loss…try and just cherish the moments you were blessed to have with them…that’s what I do…the pain is worth all the wonderful times I had
AFMadness
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Oct 19 2024 10:13PM     link to this

As I am yours

Thank you.
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Oct 21 2024 12:08AM     link to this

Beautifully said. It’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget what really matters.
Funerals always make you reflect on how short life is and how important it is to focus on love, forgiveness, and the little things.
Thanks for sharing this reminder to live with more intention!
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Oct 21 2024 10:25AM     link to this

I lost my sister in May of this year. I knew we were getting old but I always thought I would be the first to go. Dad gone in 2009. Mom gone in 2003. I am the last of the clan. I don't think I will ever get over the loss of my sister. I find myself constantly mad and angry, and angry at the stupidest shit. Fucking traffic lights annoy me the most, every fucking one of them is red, constantly getting red lights. I'll come down now.
socaliam
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Oct 21 2024 10:52AM     link to this

^ I have the opposite effect - I haven't been angry since. It's not a conscious thought but after such a loss, what's there to be mad about?
arsmemori2
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Oct 21 2024 12:34PM     link to this

I’m really sorry that you lost somebody close to you and I know it’s hard but you gotta keep your head up high and keep on going and know that you’ll see the person again. There is another spiritual around and one day you will be able to see and be with them again and I’m really sorry. I apologize. I know how I feels when you lose somebody that you love. I’ve lost many people this year and last year and it’s been hard. Our souls live on. Stay up. Rip —- prayers out to u and your friend.
PSHorneycouple
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Oct 21 2024 02:11PM     link to this

I refuse to go to another funeral. They're just to much to cope with emotionally.
aznboytoi
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Oct 21 2024 02:37PM     link to this

id only go to funeral if the person meant a lot to me and we had a lot of memories
Mr_VIP
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Nov 4 2024 12:52AM     link to this

HX:
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SmittinSasha

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Various reports of her husband robbing guys at gunpoint after they leave her incall. She sets up the rob and then acts like she didn’t know. AVOID this ratchet ass whore.
SmittinSasha
OC, CA
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Nov 4 2024 02:49AM     link to this

I never knew about his actions beforehand. I left hx after the second incident as I didn’t want anything to happen again. I was abused in my marriage and finally was able to break free. I apologize for everything that happened but I did not know prior to it happening.
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