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Do you give a bad rating
Nov 9 2024 02:48PM more by BeBunny
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If someone schedules an appointment, gets the room number, and doesn’t actually show up ?
      
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Nov 9 2024 02:55PM     link to this

Yes
BeBunny
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Nov 9 2024 03:06PM     link to this

Ok thx this time was only a false alarm , they went to the wrong hotel .. accidents happen but at first I thought they were a fake client because when they actually got to my room it was like 20 min past the appointment time
Hugh.Strom
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Nov 9 2024 03:07PM     link to this

Twice I had a provider give me the room number and when I got to the door. They didnt answer. Not sure why. But I didn’t give a negative rating. However I could see that being a safety issue for a provider. So I think that would warrant a negative safety rating.
BeBunny
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Nov 9 2024 03:12PM     link to this

I’m sorry that happened to you ):

I was wondering myself because technically it’s not an unsafe encounter if they don’t show up but like you said it could be seen that way by the girl. On PD it happens more often because there aren’t levels/safety ratings. Thankfully for HX the providers don’t have to worry about “fantasy bookers” aka NO CALL NO SHOWS as much. Although I do get a lot of texts saying “hey I sent you a flirt” on here. I’m guessing they get my number from PD lol. Is sending a flirt a viable way to screen?
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Nov 9 2024 03:13PM     link to this

How do you go to the wrong hotel?

Did you give him the correct hotel address and name?

Was this a major fuck up on your end or his?

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Nov 9 2024 03:17PM     link to this

Yes major fuck up on his end but people make mistakes I gave him the hotel name and address but it happens.. the hotel he went to vs the hotel I gave him were only 5 min apart in his defense.. but what really confused me was the room # I gave him is 4 numbers in total which doesn’t even exist at the other place. EXAMPLE: my room is 1123 , the hotel he went to as a mistake doesn’t even offer that room #
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Nov 9 2024 03:19PM     link to this

He said he was knocking at the door at the other hotel Thankfully no one answered 🫶
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Nov 9 2024 03:25PM     link to this

Well, it’s a tough call. If I arrive at the actual location, meet up and realize that the photos I saw are are completely unrepresentative (heavily filtered, 10+ years old or just plain purposefully misleading) am I a safety risk If I leave, because it wasn’t what I bargained for? I’ve seen a lot and done a lot. If you’re @ a location for a few days, everyone who visited knows your location. If someone knows your location and flakes are they any more of a security threat than all the rest? Idk….maybe
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Nov 9 2024 03:30PM     link to this

Or if I arrive on time for an appointment and the other party isn’t ready and I leave, but they still sent rm info. Would I be a safety risk?
BeBunny
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Nov 9 2024 03:49PM     link to this

Yea about the catfish stuff I don’t know exactly. I think if you don’t receive a service you don’t pay .. so if you don’t engage in sexual activity and decide right away hey I don’t want service then you can leave. That’s just my opinion. It’s no disrespect it’s happened to me before when I was on euros years ago but it was upsetting because I already started the Bbbj & my pictures are/were recent and natural
But if they don’t text you back or aren’t ready at the time of the appointment and you leave, I think that’s on the girl. As far as if it’s a safety problem to have the room # and not show up , probably not I think it’s just the unpredictable that warrants uncomfortableness
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Nov 9 2024 05:43PM     link to this

This may be off subject a bit....but GAWD girl u are stunningly FINE!!!

Ok...enough fawning...

So to answer ur question, yes. It is a safety issue on both ends. Grabbing the room number and just not showing up....safety issue. Now if shit comes up (which is does), then i'd be on guard...which is why the room number should be gotten once the other party has shown up.

Like if they get the room number while in the lobby or some shit and THEN cancels...yea, but red flag indeed.

-X-™
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Nov 9 2024 07:17PM     link to this

Yes, happened to me so I rated accordingly. Remember not everyone on here plays nice when issuing ratings
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Nov 9 2024 07:35PM     link to this


It’s a very easy error to make. I know of lots of situations where there are Doubletrees across the street from each other. Or two Marriotts next door to one another but one is a Courtyard and the other is a Residence Inn. And the guy hears Marriott on Main and doesn’t hear anything else. I’ve certainly done it a time or two.

Normally yes. A dude who has your address and room number without showing up is a safety risk for you for lots of reasons that don’t need to be spoken about publicly.

I’m happy to hear everything worked out for you in this situation.

BeBunny
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Nov 9 2024 08:35PM     link to this

Thank you 💖💖
socaliam
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Nov 9 2024 08:55PM     link to this

Yeah, I did that once. I pulled into the parking lot & went around back. I didn't realize there was another hotel about 100' away. Went to the room & no answer. Made the appointment though.
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Nov 9 2024 11:01PM     link to this

Something like this happened to me in San Diego. I was sent to one DoubleTree Hotel. When I got there the lobby was closed and required a card access. My date insisted that the lobby was open and no card access was required. She said I'll come down. And then she said hey I'm standing in the lobby where are you. I told her I'm standing outside of the locked doors. I thought I was in the Twilight Zone. It turned out to be her mistake she sent me to the wrong hotel. When we finally figured it out, I made the 10-minute trip to the right hotel and she made it up to me. You chalked it up to being blonde.
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Nov 9 2024 11:03PM     link to this

* She chalked it up to being blonde.
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Nov 9 2024 11:24PM     link to this

BTW, to start receiving service and then decide it's not going to work for you is super wrong on the guy's part. I'm sorry that happened to you. The decent thing to do is split the donation, at least.

My last comment... Bunny you have a stellar little butt. Ooof!


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Nov 10 2024 12:00AM     link to this

The correct answer is no. Dont leave a negative rating for this. Just move on and stay positive
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Nov 10 2024 12:23AM     link to this

I had a provider send me to a wrong hotel, it happns. Communication all the way up to the door is key.
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Nov 10 2024 12:26AM     link to this

Serious question.

What if the provider cancels in you after you drove 30-40 minutes to the hotel and waited. Than all of a sudden they cancel on you. Waisted time and money.
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Nov 10 2024 03:49AM     link to this

I was meeting a lady who was staying at Extended Stay in Monrovia, but when she sent me the address she did it by just bringing up her map app and clicked on the Extended Stay literally 300 yards away in Arcadia.



Lots of confusing texts back and forth before I finally asked her to see if the address she gave me matched whatever was in the room, on the phone, etc. We laughed about it later, but she for sure thought I was messing with her. I was really glad there were no guests in the same room number in the other location, lol.

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Nov 10 2024 04:37AM     link to this

If you are in the Ontario area there is a slightly higher chance of that happening. Due to the Airport and convention center being so close, there are several hotels packed in pretty tight. Maybe the gentleman was super excited to see you and just got turned around. It's happened to me twice that I can recall, and I know the area pretty well. So maybe consider cutting him a little slack. Unless this is a common occurrence for him.
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Nov 10 2024 10:58AM     link to this

It definitely happens on both ends. It’s nice that most people are really cool about it because it is easy to make the mistake. After all the service is supposed to be a fun / laid back experience. HX definitely is a wonderful site that I’m very thankful for! It’s where I first started many moons ago haha Thx gentlemen xo
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Nov 10 2024 02:32PM     link to this

^ Most of the people here are well intentioned and reasonable enough. Honestly even with the “cat fishing” experiences I’ve had or the occasional non-punctual ones. I’ve never rated them negatively and always left them whatever I agreed to. If I gave them an 10-15 minute grace period and I decide to leave, I always message letting them know and tell em not to send the room info. Each situation is different and should be treated as such. With a well measured and appropriate response.
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Nov 11 2024 12:09PM     link to this

i've ended up at the wrong place a couple of times.

all i had was an address & sometimes map apps are wrong.

you need the exact name of the venue & the right address.

and i would recommend never giving out a room number until you're sure your client is at the right spot.

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Nov 11 2024 08:00PM     link to this

He had 🐱 on the brain it happens all the time I’m sure he was excited and ended up at the wrong place
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Nov 11 2024 08:06PM     link to this

I have you on the brain rn!^^^^^:
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☺️☺️
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Nov 12 2024 07:03AM     link to this

I have done that. Sometimes you look at the address and just start driving. You don’t realize it until you can’t find the room. The wrong head was navigating lol
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Nov 12 2024 12:40PM     link to this

Haha yes! It’s great to double confirm after they’ve parked!! And kitty is definitely distracting 😂but the gps isn’t perfect either lol it’s a # of things 😂❤️
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Nov 12 2024 03:56PM     link to this

i think it has happened once or twice when i went to the wrong hotel. sometimes hanging out at the hotel bar before an appointment is not a good idea.
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Nov 12 2024 05:01PM     link to this

🤣🤣 my old duo partner did that and got a charge for assault on an officer, our early 20s were too turnt lol
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Nov 13 2024 01:36AM     link to this

It happened to me LAST WEEKEND in Carlsbad where there are two of the same franchised hotel about 3 miles apart.
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Nov 13 2024 07:16AM     link to this

I like staying at the Anaheim Marriott Suites at Chapman & Harbor Blvd while in OC. But if you google it by name only on maps it may take you to another Anaheim Marriott Suites by the convention center. I have had that happen a couple of times where the client went to the wrong one.

Now I add the street address in my directions and warn them to navigate by address, not by name.

Haven't had a repeat incident of wrong hotel since doing this.
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Nov 13 2024 01:23PM     link to this

Oooo two of the same franchises is confusing & thank you girlie that’s good advice to let them know to go by the address and not name. The OC and SD have SOO many hotels it’s inevitable that a person will make a mistake, but I’m thankful to work in these busy / beautiful areas
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Nov 13 2024 05:12PM     link to this

As others have said, been there done that.

Doubletree - 55 & MacAurthur.

I have to one of those doubletrees for work - done presentations in their conference rooms, so when I got the hotel name & cross street, I was oh, yeah, I know that one.


Drive, park, go up, no one at home.

I got it corrected via text, and frankly, it took me less time to walk to the other one than it would have taken me to get back in car, pass through the garage maze & gate parking & into the other one.

It's like a quarter mile one to the other. Weird.

Glad the gal understood, or at least was accommodating. Nice time.
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Nov 13 2024 05:19PM     link to this

Glad it was close enough to still be able 2 make it in time!! As long as it’s not too far apart everything works out. Irvine definitely has a crazy amount of hotels and yet they still manage to sell out lol
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Here in Pasadena there is a Best Western Pasadena Inn AND a Best Western Pasadena Royale Inn & Suites, located a block from each other on Colorado Blvd on the same side of the street. I recently saw an HX lady at one of them and made sure to triple check the address she had given me before I parked. Thankfully, no problems.
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I want to work Pasadena but I don’t get that many hits there. Maybe I’m posting on the wrong day. Is there a good day to work there?
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