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Ladies never put your phone number in your home page.
This is a very regular occurrence.
It is a safety issue to not put your phone number on your home page.
This has been repeated a thousand times.
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I don't know anything about the o p.
My comment is regarding what not to do. Again never put your number in your profile page.
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^ It is safe to put your number on your profile if you know how to screen properly and do your due diligence.
Sucks that this stuff is still happening to anyone !  remember .. not all $ is good $
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One reason other than safety.
The site operates on revenue.
People buying points create revenue for the site.
People with no pm privileges are not supporting the site.
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That’s fair !
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While I do have my number posted on my page , about 90% of guys know to always PM or flirt first 
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Hi love!!
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Thanks for the heads up. I screen always so it usually helps. Will be extra cautious this next upcoming tour.
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Uhhh I advise you ladies do not see this guy. Pm me for what happened last week!!
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Girl put his handle on here pronto
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I have a blacklist in nc but is shorter now due to me requiring linkedin and drivers license in addition to references request. Does one of u gals have a list of bad guys for the year. Too expensive in Cali when I tour to maje a mistake. Plz start saving numbers and emails with license plates if u can achieve that.
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Some dudes are way too concerned about who is giving their money to HX. The site allows everyone to choose whether to donate or not. Think about that. You might decide to stop trying to control the behavior of others.
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Sure froggy
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Thanks
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10-4
Why is their so many rules in life🤪
XoTabie:.*
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To make it safe?🤪
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@Lunaloveslace you rated him safely ??
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I have my number in my profile and ads. And the 1st thing I always ask, is where did you get my number. If the answer is HX my next question is did you send me a pm. That is a must do in order to continue the conversation.
No PM, No Info.
I have other ways of verifying for people from other places.
It is ok to put your number out there, just have a process to verify the guy, and stick to it. Once I was distracted and did not follow my process. And guess what? I was robbed. Never break from protocol.
"A"
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If you only verify with a PM on HX even though they have your number, isn't it a bit redundant?
I've known ladies that have their numbers on their profile and they always make it sound like a headache cause they have to investigate who the person is, instead of just verifying it with a PM on HX.
I could see how it could be confusing and your guard being down and the inappropriate person shows up and you get robbed like Ajay was saying.
Be safe out there ladies and Merry Christmas to all !!
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Just had an episode happen ...
Guy " Texted " an Hx lady and said that Pete Melloy < ----- yes even spelled my handle wrong
The text stated that I had posted videos and pics on " USA Sex Guide " from a previous encounter with the lady ?
The guy claimed to be : RedPanda on Hx and claimed to be my " Buddy " ???
Claimed that he would be sending a pm " Later " to verify himself ...
I don't know RedPanda, but his profile looks really good, and I'm pretty sure that he's a solid dude...
First of all, unless you know the guy that you're texting with personally, make them verify themselves...
There are way too many WEIRDOS and IMPOSTERS out there ...
Don't fall for the " I don't have any mail bullshit " and if the guy can't afford $ 25 bucks for new mail privileges = Why are you talking with him anyways ?
My profile has it and so do many other members here on Hx about verifying before engaging with TEXTSTERS ...
For myself :
I only am on Hx ...
No TER
No USA SEX GUIDE
No PRIVATE DELIGHTS
No Anything Else ...
Imposters have stolen my Hx handle name and signed up on other sites, which is creepy as fuck ...
Error on the side of caution ladies, do not engage unless you are 100 % certain ...
If a guy is serious he'll have no problem and will respect that you are verifying them ... Do NOT cut this corner, it is imperative that you verify people that are randomly texting you !!!
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I'm with Pete and others here.
When in doubt, ask for a PM to verify who the person is. Don't let them use the time urgency as the reason to forget verifications.
I'm like Pete, Only on HX and no other sites.
Be forewarned. If I ask you for Hx message to verify you and your number and you don't verify, I'm within my right to cancel that appointment.
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Even if you know the person still verify !!!
I had a guy claiming to be someone that I'd met. I would have believed him but I had literally just spoken to the real guy a day or two before. It was just by coincidence that we Pmed back and forth and he gave me his number. So when the imposter texted me I immediately realized that it wasn't the number that I was given the day or so before and texted the number in the PM
Of course he confirms that it was not him and I am so glad because had we not spoken before hand I would have never known. I had not spoken to the guy in like 5 months and would have assumed it was him since I don't publicly post my number.
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If a guy tried to rob me I would take his gun kick his ass and then call the cops! Send his ass to jail for a gun charge and attempted robbery!!
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^ love a girl who takes charge!
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Taking a firearm from anyone could go either way.
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^^ it could but not when u catch them off guard
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I ain’t going out without a fight is all I’m saying 🤪
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Even when someone doesn’t have points to Pm me I still always Pm them a “secret word” to have them read and confirm what it is..
Lots of ways to verify
Don’t be money hungry or eager to book a date
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Tab just make sure your timing is right.
Lead poisoning really hurts
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Sorry still laughing at Linkedin and drivers license for screening.
Would you provide it ?
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I still do not understand what the big deal is about posting a phone number.
You SHOULD do your home work regardless.
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The number gives a con artist a foot in the door.
Don't open the door and see how far they get.
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Sorry not providing DL Pm do your due diligence!
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I require more screening on other sites but if they are on here I require a message on here or I do what the other gal said and send a secret word, that verifies they have access to the account.
I am not on this site all the time so I like a text also or I might not know they messaged me on here. If they cant screen w hx network then they have to screen like on other sites.
And you are being intimate w a person is it that big a deal if they know your name? Serious red flag if it's a problem because you should have checked her out already.
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wow that's crazy
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One can lead a horse to water but that doesn't mean they will drink.
If you don't want to be safe put your phone number in your profile that's your call.
It is impossible to fix dumb. I can only try
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I do not agree, a number is no different than an email address, or a PM, it's just a form of contact.
Not screening is the issue.
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100% ^^^
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Really
To have a phone number you do not need an account, to have an email address you do not to have an account, but you do need to have an account on HX to send a PM so if you're saying they're all the same think about it.
Tell me again how it is the same you're talking apples and oranges.
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I mean.. if you don't see that the issue is not properly screening.. I don't know what to tell ya buddy.
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I'm not the one saying that a PM is the same as a phone number and an email that's not me
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bless you heart.
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