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Dahg8tcubix
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Why post available now?
Dec 15 2023 02:22AM more by Dahg8tcubix
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Why do girls post available now when they are not? If you post available now I see it as you have openings at the time you are posting and not rebooking for a later time or day(s). If you post available now you should be available right at that moment or within the hour just saying. It’s deceiving when girls post available now but they really are not.

What are your thoughts?

If girls are posting at this time currently about 230am you should be available if we inquire. Am I wrong?
      
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NigelCollins68
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Dec 15 2023 09:00AM     link to this

True. You would think that posting at 2:30 a.m. would mean that they were awake and ready to go.
AFMadness
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Dec 15 2023 09:37AM     link to this

You risk being flaked on at that time. They risk you being totally drunk when you do. Prebook is best.
June.Moon
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Dec 15 2023 10:05AM     link to this


Saying available now means I am now available to meet people for the day or days listed


When it comes to time that's on a first come first served bases

So even if I'm posting I'm now available it just means I am now starting to see people not necessarily that you can come right now

Because someone else can book that spot and even though I am still available for the day I am now booked for that time


Idk I have a hard time explaining so I hope it makes sense
June.Moon
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Dec 15 2023 10:06AM     link to this

Also seeing someone at 2am is kinda sketch

I know they say that the freaks come out at night but not THAT late lol
taxartiste
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Dec 15 2023 10:28AM     link to this

June, To me available now is easy to understand and I agree ultra late night is for the freaks and for those who do things I stopped doing 25 years ago. So I'll come see you soon, available now or in the next few weeks!
axg258
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Dec 15 2023 11:18AM     link to this

I think when posting instead of saying available now that should just say available today and if you want us to put a start time that’s awesome . That way there’s no confusion.
💜💜
June.Moon
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Dec 15 2023 12:15PM     link to this

Tax .. that's true! See you soon


Axg.. I agree !! Because if you put available now and someone sees it two hours later it may not even apply ..




Just like when I finish hosting id put no longer available and everyone thought that I retired lmfao

Even though I kinda did .. but I realized that how you word things are very important
vince2001
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Dec 15 2023 12:54PM     link to this

A lot of you beautiful ladies have gotten a message or two from me at 2 AM. Thank you for being a good sport, however I never flaked.

Tequila and Pedro get frisky around that time 😂
axg258
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Dec 15 2023 01:48PM     link to this

@ June
Are we ever going to connect again!!
Promise to be gentle like it’s our first time
💜💜
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Dec 15 2023 09:43PM     link to this

I’m a night owl and I know some like coming after the bar closes for a night cap but if you post & you’re not available, maybe she got booked quick? Not sure but definitely understand everyone’s pov
June.Moon
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Dec 16 2023 07:25AM     link to this

Skylar true!! Sometimes I go to bed at 8 and then im wide awake by 3am ready to roll over on some dick lol. I do have a really good friend that only meets at 1am so I definitely recant my statement for sure



Axg... Hahaha VERY gentle! You know I'm a big girl with a small entrance .. I'm hanging out with my aunt for a few days but I predict a tantalizing Tuesday in the in the mist
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Dec 16 2023 08:17PM     link to this

A lot of the time it means available now for prebooking or same day dates
When we are available same day and we get a booking it is not our first priority to switch all our ads to not currently available
TomD92801
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Dec 16 2023 09:20PM     link to this

Stating I'm available now when you're just looking for prebooks doesn't sound very honest. And I doubt most women would do that.

I can understand getting swamped with pms because of the available now statement because many guys are looking for girls who really are available right now.

And I can understand the resulting bookings that keep a girl from replying or setting anything else up because her honest statement landed her some dates.

I can even understand girls who might advertise that late at night and just fall asleep because of the lateness of the hour.

But saying that you're available now to try to prebook for the next day or later that day is disingenuous to say the least.
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Dec 16 2023 09:53PM     link to this

I do some of my best work after midnight.
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Dec 17 2023 12:17AM     link to this

It’s like when storefronts have a big “going out of business sale!” Sign up for years.. LOL!

Truth be told I only post as “available now” when I’m free for the next few hours but I was imagining why some girls would do otherwise. Best thing to do is hit them up and hope for a quick reply

I personally like when a gentleman will prebook with me in anticipation of meeting ME, instead of looking last minute for whoever is ready. Feels like foreplay
TaylorSoSpunky
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Dec 17 2023 10:11AM     link to this

I get everyone's point. But I get calls and texts when I don't post for a day or two. But on the other hand if and when I post I'm available and if I'm preBook etc, I'll be very clear that I am. I think clear communication will solve most of issues.
TheMatrixx
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Dec 17 2023 10:42AM     link to this

Some of you girls are not too bright. It's a shame I even have to do this but here you go

a·vail·a·ble
/əˈvāləb(ə)l/
adjective
able to be used or obtained; at someone's disposal.

now
/nou/
adverb
1.
at the present time or moment.

These are the definitions there shouldn't be any confusion on something so simple

axg258
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Dec 17 2023 11:23AM     link to this

@TheMatrixx
Thank you
Funny how they change a meaning of the word to their benefit..
say what you mean … mean what you say !!!
LacieO
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Dec 17 2023 12:34PM     link to this

To make it clear for the gents, unless they advertise, you may not know this ...

When you want to update your profile, the site flashes and says that you don't need to update your profile. Just tell everyone where you're at by updating your location.

If you don't look at your profile, you won't realize that it says "City, County, State Today!"

So for some, that it could be a reason WHY!

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axg258
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Dec 17 2023 01:17PM     link to this

@LacieO
I think the what we are talking about in this blog is when providers state on there posting that they are available “now” but are really not available at the current moment.. location is not being questioned.. I think we are questioning the time of availability
Dahg8tcubix
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Dec 17 2023 01:53PM     link to this

Thanks for giving your feedback/comments on what you interpret the meaning of it is.

Feel like this was a good blog topic.
June.Moon
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Dec 17 2023 02:14PM     link to this

Available now - available at this very moment


Available today - available to start taking appointments today







Let's just use that from now on..
ColossusJones
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Dec 17 2023 04:04PM     link to this


When the site removed the classified ads section a few years ago due to unknown impacts of certain federal laws, the only way to let folks know you were available was to update your profile location and hope folks would see you were in a certain area hence Lacie’s statement. Why the site still has that statement?

🤷

Dahg8tcubix
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Dec 17 2023 04:06PM     link to this

Here comes colossusjones… go mind your business at your safety club.
LacieO
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Dec 19 2023 05:54PM     link to this

axg258 ... What a dork-girl I am since I didn't think about that!!

ColossusJones ... Whoa, I totally forgot about that cuz it was SO long ago.


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