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To those that may be grieving over the holidays...
Dec 22 2023 03:04PM more by Pretty_Kittty
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I've been sitting here trying to think of the right words, but I know all too well there aren't any when grief is consuming. One thing I can say is that it gets better and those tears will turn back into smiles. Over time your heart will mend and a new normal will create itself. Celebrate and keep those stories alive because your loved ones now live through you.


My heart is with you all


Happy Holidays!!!
      
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grooviefan
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Dec 22 2023 03:35PM     link to this

^^^ a true class act. ALL the best to you Kitty. XOXo
Pretty_Kittty
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Dec 22 2023 03:48PM     link to this

Thank you Groovie! Happy Holidays
mac1965
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Dec 22 2023 03:57PM     link to this

Very nicely said...... another reason I've always liked you! (Although, there are some other things, too) 😉
Grumpy_Butthead
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Dec 22 2023 04:01PM     link to this

Merry Christmas youngin and a great New Year.

I am pretty sure I know what I want for Christmas.

It's a good cook. Maybe five foot nine inches tall.
Storm_Gorinson
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Dec 22 2023 04:05PM     link to this

Thank you so much Pretty_Kitty. You are My Hero !!!
Reading your kind, thoughtful words on a subject that most people don't even think about, let alone bring up during the Holiday Season truly made a difference...for me at least.

You are correct. There isn't much at all that can be said or done to ease the sorrow. Nevertheless your well wishes and words of encouragement did make having to go through the pain, a little less lonely.
And for that, I am eternally grateful.
jldsjr1
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Dec 22 2023 04:05PM     link to this

PK

What a blessed thought and perspective.
You are wise and beautiful.

Wishing everyone a wonderful holiday season.
Try to enjoy the little moments.
moneytrain
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Dec 22 2023 04:20PM     link to this

PK is a top quality person, smart, high emotional intelligence, witty and on top of that she is gorgeous 😍. I really enjoy reading your blogs, Happy Holidays sweetheart!
loucfirr1
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Dec 22 2023 04:30PM     link to this

Thank you sexy
SeymourButz
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Dec 22 2023 04:34PM     link to this

My fren Jack is always there for times like this. Mr Daniel's and I have developed quite the frenship these past few years.
Remember folks.....you're never alone.
OCCityBoy2
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Dec 22 2023 04:42PM     link to this

Miss PK,

Your words mirror the kindness in your heart.
Every time I see you, my spirit feels renewed,
And I sense that all is fine on the world.

Your tenderness and sweetness are treasures,
Your passion and affection refills my heart.
The countless blessings you give to others,
Are a testament of the wonderful generosity.

Merry Christmas, Miss Pretty Kittty...
You are an Angel of Angels.
Harpooner
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Dec 22 2023 04:53PM     link to this

Kind and thoughtful words. Yes, the holidays can be a tough time for many people. I lost my father six days before Christmas, and that loss lingers with me this time of year still after18 years.

It’s important to recognize it’s not necessarily a joyous time for everyone.
JohnWayneOC
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Dec 22 2023 04:57PM     link to this

Thank you
Pretty_Kittty
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Dec 22 2023 05:20PM     link to this

Mac - You are very kind (and I like you too)

Grumpy - Merry Christmas Dear! I'll be under the tree with my Chef tools ready to be unwrapped!

Storm - Thank you for your kind words. I just remember the dark place i was in years ago (the reason i left quietly), so know that you aren't alone. Even I still take a couple days to hibernate and cope and make sure my parents are ok, but I promise it gets better!! Like i can laugh and crack jokes about them now. Also you may think im crazy, but a life size cut out is pretty great to have too (I only have 1, not one for each person). At least with myself it helped big time. I put seasonal outfits on him, and when things come up missing i blame my brother

jlds - Thank you dear and Happy Holidays to you too!!

Moneytrain - Thank you so much for the kind words (my mom wouldn't let me be a dummy.... i tried lol jk) Happy Holidays to you too!!

lou - Any time love

seymour - You aren't alone either

OCCityBoy - and your words have warmed my heart, Thank you Happy Holidays!

Harpooner - You're welcome and i agree with you. May your dad continue to rest easy and yourself have peace in your heart

JohnWayne - You're welcome!





OCCityBoy2
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Dec 22 2023 06:30PM     link to this

You are the angel in my dreams.
If I had one wish,
It would be that one wish be yours to make.
To know I gave you a moment to smile, I am blessed.
QuestShark
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Dec 22 2023 06:59PM     link to this

PK - your kindness and warmth is always welcomed!

All the best to you all and your loved ones!
Cherish every moment you get with those that you love!
Nicholas45
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Dec 22 2023 07:08PM     link to this

I just lost a close family member. He was young. And it’s difficult. Anyway thank you for that. It was a nice post.
SkyBot84
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Dec 23 2023 12:06AM     link to this



Wish all the very best!

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Dec 23 2023 02:36AM     link to this

Thank you, PK.
LifeSaver
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Dec 23 2023 03:25AM     link to this

Merry Christmas Kittty🎁🎄
I look up as I walk so the tears don’t fall
Grumpy_Butthead
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Dec 23 2023 05:27AM     link to this


Prayers be with all that have a loss.
Atticus_Finch
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Dec 23 2023 06:30AM     link to this

No Surprise this is coming from one of my favorite people on this platform!
That's a beautiful thing to say PK!

Many have lost people and pets that they loved deeply at this time and it puts a black cloud over this time of year.

Have a Very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Atticus Finch
sexystephie
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Dec 23 2023 06:53AM     link to this

Wow. We have never met but now you are on my bucket list. What a beautiful soul you are. Happy Holidays !!
SkurferGurl
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Dec 23 2023 07:08AM     link to this

PK is a keeper

When our friends and family pass, that's all we're left with, is the memories.

Holidays are usually always filled with cheerful times and thoughts.

Holiday memories of loved ones that have passed are hard, as long as they are in your heart........ well that's the best !!

Merry, Merry Christmas for everyone !!!
KayilaMarie4ever
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Dec 23 2023 07:15AM     link to this

PK,
YOU HAVE ALWAYS HAD THAT BEAUTIFUL SOUL SINCE I'VE MET YOU!!! YOURE A RARE BREED GORGEOUS

XOXO
munny1
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Dec 23 2023 07:49AM     link to this

Thank you, PK.
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Dec 23 2023 07:49AM     link to this

Thank you for that insight. Ive never been fond of the holidays so this time of year, Im usually just distant from everyone.
bigguy31
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Dec 23 2023 02:11PM     link to this

Heartfelt words from a sweet special woman Happy Holidays PK .
BlueBalz
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Dec 23 2023 02:33PM     link to this

Now I know what I want for Christmas
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Dec 23 2023 03:51PM     link to this

Briefly lost a sock in the dryer, so this message is particularly timely.
Thanks OP!

Sheheldmeback
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Dec 23 2023 03:53PM     link to this

My Dearest PK.....

Every word you have stated is true. The holidays are truly hard for so many. Memories are always kind to us, especially when it comes to those that we have loved and will always love. You and I have spoken about this more than a few times....I lost my mother over the holidays. Though it was a bittersweet departure, I cannot always fill the deep hole that her loss created for me.

So, thank you for this reminder to keep them alive with Happy and Fun memories. I have so many. Definitely, when you get sad, have a picture or a video of a great moment or event with that person or persons.

Thank you again PK for your sweet and thoughtful words....you, my dear, are an amazing woman, with a beautiful exterior with an exquisite soul.

Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas and an amazing New Year!
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Dec 24 2023 05:24AM     link to this

To all friends and family that are in heaven🥃.
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Dec 24 2023 07:46AM     link to this

Thanks PK ! Merry Christmas!
Kens
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Dec 24 2023 04:13PM     link to this

Hi SK (now PK)

Your kind words speak highly to what a wonderful person you are! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and a very happy and prosperous New Year! I hope to see you again in the new year...
AFMadness
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Dec 24 2023 08:42PM     link to this

Thanks PK. My father passed some 5 years ago on this 23rd day.

Now my dear friend, retired from here years ago may not last much longer because of Cancer at 57.

The pattern of numbers are incredible between my father her and I. smh...
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Dec 25 2023 05:49AM     link to this

Happy Holidays everyone!!! And PK, you are a total package. Thank you beautiful!!!
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Dec 25 2023 06:00AM     link to this

Well said PK. Great soul!

Merry Christmas!
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Dec 25 2023 04:42PM     link to this

Prettiest Miss Kittty,

For some of us, a holiday means nothing.
For me, it's a forced day away from work.
Work is where my life has meaning,
And even there, my life has evolved into loneliness.

I get assigned menial tasks, toiling by myself,
Working with tools I grasp in my hands.
I him to myself random notes of music meaningless,
And when it's time to leave the day, I go to find sleep.

I am among those, loneliness is my sole companion,
I only ask that my day ends in peace and sleep,
I wake, I eat, I sweat alone by myself each day,
And when I think, I look for someone to touch...
It's already too late today, I see only where they've been.
I have my memories of kindness, affection, long gone by.
But maybe there is mercy in the hope that someday,
I will get to renew a time when life was not so alone.

I remember when I spent a birthday with you,
And then celebrated your birthday with me.

OCCityBoy2
vince2001
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Dec 26 2023 02:46AM     link to this

PK, Did you get the gift i sent you?
OCCityBoy2
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PK, will you comfort me?
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