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2small4porn
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1-10. How bad must a good relationship’s sex be to be deal breaker?
Dec 26 2023 12:51PM more by 2small4porn
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Suppose you found perfect partner in every other way be sex. Mutually dig each others looks. Have good fun together and enjoy each other’s company but sex is a blank out if 10 (10 being best) would it have to be to call no joy and quit relationship ? How about if married?

I know some people will say you gotta communicate but say there’s things you like that she doesn’t… whatever those fetishes may be..

For me 6/10 and 7/10 is cutting it close.. are my expectations too high or too low? Lol
      
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SeymourButz
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Dec 26 2023 01:16PM     link to this

Set your standards to.......let's say -2.

I met a gal, butt ugly.....flabby ass, wore Jane Hathaway metal frame glasses. Boy she gave amazing head... We've been married for 15 years now.
AFMadness
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Dec 26 2023 09:15PM     link to this

Go to TheNumbersLady.com and have her do you two's Numerology blue print.

Only then you will know.
MrAdm1n123456789
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Dec 27 2023 02:52AM     link to this

In most cases, if the sex is bad there is a reason


Unless there is a physical misfit or a severe psychological barrier...they just aren't into you.

I used to think some girls were too conservative..but actually girls are way sexually darker than men...just be dominant and see what happens before you assume all is lost.

The other thing to consider is yourself.

Be the change you want to see in the bedroom..


Or just use hx on the side
Sweetassuga
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Dec 27 2023 09:13AM     link to this

First she has to be informed, let her know as nice as possible this is a deal breaker. When i was younger i would have been thrilled for some Hx ladies to handle a few tasks. As long as it was business i could have cared less. Actually if anything i would have been so appreciative he was never going to ask me to do that again. All women aren't super jealous, or maybe not even slightly jealous. Maybe she will be thrilled the pressure of doing these things she doesn't like is relieved.

If that is not the case (90% likely it wont be but you never know until you talk about it), then do what you do best- negotiate. Give her some incentive. Buy some really nice things and have a stack of cash on hand at home for her, and assert your dominance for sure, politely. You'll find out what she costs, the only thing left will be to decide if you can afford her.
juicybl921
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Dec 27 2023 10:23AM     link to this

If the sex feels like 0 all the time sorry bro she might not be all that into you.
2small4porn
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Dec 27 2023 11:11AM     link to this

Great male and female perspectives so far. I was being half funny curious and half serious with this blog. In all honesty I think maybe it was more me being too not wanting to hurt her feelings to ask or my being too shy to bring it up. I think she knows something is off and suggested counseling together. So in my instance I think I’m definitely at fault. However I can imagine that there are things that some guys and gals just don’t enjoy doing for their other partners even after being candid with one another but everything else is great. I guess that’s more of a dilemma than my instance.

Hey1
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Dec 27 2023 09:10PM     link to this

This is an interesting semantic issue in regards to the words perfect and relationship.

First of all, if you learned how to compose proper english sentences that would win half the battle towards communication problems. Is there something wrong with the water in Orange? That county is like Americas Afghanistan.

Secondly, your query precludes the answer. Good sex does not exist without a marrow deep relationship. Orgasms do. Fun does. Sweat, happiness, weak legs walking back to the car.

But the ethereal heights of fulfilling sex only happen exactly because of a perfect knowledge between two minds more intimately entwined and selfless and adrift than strands of gossamer in the wind. With truly great sex body is mind and mind is body.

That does not happen because both of you are tens. It happens with work, serendipity, humility, and the desperate desire to be what you are not through another. To be complete.
loucfirr1
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Dec 27 2023 11:34PM     link to this

Just tell her you need to get pegged to get off. She might be into jt!
June.Moon
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Dec 28 2023 05:59AM     link to this

Teach her what it is that you like



I love when a man can show me how to please them
Gracekelly
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Dec 28 2023 06:36AM     link to this

An 8
SeymourButz
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Dec 28 2023 10:08AM     link to this

You know, June Moon is right.
Don't you guys like when a broad says to you.....oh, right there.....all faster.....faster.....harder.....faster....and all of the sudden BAM! all this wet liquidy pee like substance comes gushing out. You're there all fucking wet and you feel so good, makes you want to go home and slap your momma.
Well, like that!
OCCityBoy2
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Dec 28 2023 08:04PM     link to this

Depends on the emotional connection that we have...

There is someone I know, he is so envious of me.
He tells me he thinks she is a looker and very hot.

I tell him that a 10 on the surface is someone to be careful with...
Because some 10's are hot to the eyes, but a 1 inside,
I said take her if you want, no returns. You're stuck with her.

The best sex with her, is "NO SEX".
June.Moon
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Dec 28 2023 10:45PM     link to this

Seymore definitely gets it !!




Because though I don't like fingers in my pussy I will say something like "use your tongue instead.... Lick me here .. fuck me just like that..." And even direct you to lay down, get behind me, or on top




I think we all could use a little guidance in bed. I definitely want to learn how to become better when it comes to the person I'm with



Rarely do I not satisfy someone but in the event that I do, show me the ways that I can improve myself



(Though if we didn't get along it's more than likely because of you, not me lol)
BlueBalz
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Dec 29 2023 03:55PM     link to this

Let’s be honest, who really has sex with their wives anymore ? Just say”n”…
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