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HawaiianPunch
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I’ve been happily married
Apr 16 2024 11:59PM more by HawaiianPunch
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For 30 years.

Life is grand!
      
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socaliam
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Apr 17 2024 12:25AM     link to this

Congrats
ifoolaround
Irvine, OC, CA
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Apr 17 2024 07:28AM     link to this

I am at 53 years together.
notsofast
OC, CA
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Apr 17 2024 07:46AM     link to this

What's your secret HP?
NutandBolt
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Apr 17 2024 10:54AM     link to this

^^^^^^ Duh

HX
Grumpy_Butthead
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Apr 17 2024 11:34AM     link to this

I've been happily married five different times.
SeymourButz
Humboldt, CA
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Apr 17 2024 01:15PM     link to this

I've been servicing 5 different married women for the last 15 yrs.
GoBallsDeep
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Apr 17 2024 03:20PM     link to this

Happily married is an oxymoron
yyzed
Central Coast, CA
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since Feb 18 2022

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Apr 17 2024 05:40PM     link to this

I like my marriages to last an hour at a time
Harpooner
Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 17 2024 06:16PM     link to this

I was happily married for 10 years. Unfortunately, the marriage didn’t end for another 15 years.
Hey1
LA, CA
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Apr 17 2024 07:04PM     link to this

Happily married is an oxymoron


No. Sentient Goebbels. FIFY.
RobBlakeFan
Yorba Linda, OC, CA
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Apr 17 2024 07:35PM     link to this

I understand divorce is expensive. Been there done that but why do you stay in a marriage with no sex life? I know I'm not normal but this makes no sense to me. Also unless she has signed off on your exta curricular activities then you are violating your marriage vows. Lieing and cheating on people you claim to love is not cool.
grooviefan
Cypress, OC, CA
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Apr 17 2024 07:40PM     link to this

RBF, he hsn't stated whether his wife has a vagina that is in working order, or even want to do the deed. we know nothing of his lifestyle other then he is on HX...
SeymourButz
Humboldt, CA
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Apr 18 2024 01:34PM     link to this

The 5 broads have told me plenty about you guys.
Jack
LA, CA
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Apr 19 2024 02:05AM     link to this

I've been married 50 years, and with her 57 years, and I would marry my wife again in a heartbeat. She has made my life great.

As she hit menopause, she lost interest in sex, and I didn't so rather than push her to have sex, I sought it elsewhere, I even went through a bust out where my son put me on blast, and when I went to my wife and told her, her initial response was that it was her fault. I told her she was perfect, and it was all me. In the 12 years since the bust out, she has never once brought it up or rubbed my nose it it.

I get it that many marriages are just not all that great, but for me... marriage has been wonderful
Pjforfun
Austin, TX
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Apr 19 2024 09:18AM     link to this

After 40 years a happy marriage has nothing to do with sex.

NutandBolt
Costa Mesa, OC, CA
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Apr 19 2024 09:57AM     link to this

@Jack
Beautiful story.
I remember you telling me that way back and I am happy for you that it had a happy ending!
SeymourButz
Humboldt, CA
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Apr 19 2024 05:23PM     link to this

I vote for Jack as well.
I found that testimony to be quite moving and showing what commitment is all about. I bet they met when they were both very young, and somehow connected in a way that was based on friendship and a true sense of protection, trust and loyalty.
Either one can do no wrong to the other. Nothing that could not be forgiven or forgotten about. Water under the bridge. A feather in the wind.
I bet they never went to bed mad at one another. I'm sure an argument was short and in a matter of 20 to 35 minutes all was well.
What people lack, is the ability to move on. Move past the negative energy the ruins life itself. When you find yourself in a relationship that has these qualities, there's nothing that can replace it.
Tabie
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Apr 19 2024 05:44PM     link to this

That’s because you are a good human which is a rare commodity!! I love and miss my punchy 💋
Exoticbabygirl
Inland Empire, CA
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Apr 19 2024 06:45PM     link to this

Thanks to HX right ? 🙂
bird
OC, CA
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since Feb 20 2009

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Apr 19 2024 09:53PM     link to this

^Definitely hx is the key to a good marriage.
what_if
OC, CA
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Apr 20 2024 04:26AM     link to this

❤️ that brother
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Apr 21 2024 10:01AM     link to this

Marriage is the Leading cause of divorce.
LngbdSR
Huntington Beach, OC, CA
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Apr 21 2024 03:08PM     link to this

What is a “bust out”?
LngbdSR
Huntington Beach, OC, CA
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Apr 21 2024 03:10PM     link to this

I assume someone found out and was going to share the information. Just never heard it called that
GoBallsDeep
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Apr 21 2024 03:33PM     link to this

Maybe bust out = sex change
sweet_dahlia_dd
El Cajon, San Diego, CA
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Apr 21 2024 08:02PM     link to this

seems about right, you're like 60 now lmao...Joking
Jack
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Apr 22 2024 01:44PM     link to this

Lngboard has it right.

My son worked for me and was snooping in my office, and put me on blast to all my adult children and spouses. Dealt with that for 3 months, and decided it was time to take my medicine, so I went to my wife. She had lunch with each one of them, and not sure what she said, but probably that she just wanted her family to move on and let her deal with it.

We never missed a beat. She likes her life, and wanted me in it. Just a lucky guy with a smart and great wife
SeymourButz
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Apr 22 2024 04:51PM     link to this

I remember this story a few years back when it first happened.
LeftAndRight
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Apr 23 2024 07:37AM     link to this

Im on my 2nd happily ever after and back dipping my toes in the HX pool trying not too cheat, even though ive been given a pass bye SO. I figure if i start being active on HX I may as well be single and move on from my marriage. I caught her talking to her X and was ready to end it im not the type of man to chase a woman around for evidence honestly im just waiting to find another good woman to date seriously then ill send this one packing back to her X. Till then I'll just use her body shes begging not to break up her call.

I love being in longterm relationships my opinion is all men need a female in their home.
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Apr 23 2024 07:43AM     link to this

Love is grand boys im still in love with my first sons mom congratulations to the fellas married over 30 years quite an accomplishment.
Jack
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Apr 24 2024 12:39AM     link to this

I regret getting busted out, and regret the respect I lost from my adult children, but always had a feeling that I could get through a bust out without losing my marriage.

Some of the lady's on here think the guys are losers for paying for time, but it is a lot simpler and less complicated than civie dates or relationships, which can pose big time problems in so many ways. You can fall in love or get emotionally attached, or she can and try to tank you. You can be seen in public by friends, it can mess with your mind and affect your relationship at home, you have to lie to get laid by a civie, and that is wrong in and of itself.

If you don't think your marriage will survive if found out, then you have your answer, as there is always the chance no matter how careful you are. But if you're going to, you are on a good chat board! lol
MissNatCox
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Apr 25 2024 10:06AM     link to this

An accomplishment!

Congrats!!
SinFul_Curves
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Apr 26 2024 08:59AM     link to this

I have a saying that I say all the time. WGs(i use another word) keep marriages together one month at a time.
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